What Does It Mean When A Group Of Women...?

[Gettinthere]

Hi, I have a question and wonder if someone here can shed some light on this. What does it mean when your at a retail store and your passing by the customer service area and the women there 3 or 4 after you past by start to laugh and I mean laugh so loud you can hear them at a distance?

Now I am not sure they were laughing at me or someone had told a joke but just as I passed they all started to laugh. Just for the record, I had previously approached one of the women there and at the time she gave me the cold shoulder and before the outburst of laughter she had seen me cashing out and something tells me this laughter was directed at me but not sure or why.

Thanks for any insight.

Gettinthere

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

The fact that you are concerned say that you may have some personal insecurities. It'll be easier to deal with them than to attempt to figure out women.

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

If your gut tells you it was directed to you,it probably was,note: gut not logic.

 

[Brutus]

Oh, man, think about it; you approach a girl, she blows you off, and then her group laughs when you pass by... I'm 99,99% sure it was about you.

But I don't understand why are you asking this? You wanted to know if that's an IOI or what? It's impossible to say - maybe they tried to get your attention, or maybe they laughed at you because they thought you're a moron. I should see the situation with my own eyes to make the right conclusion.

Anyway, if this happens again, try this; next time turn around, and make a curious look like your wondering if it's about you AND smile. you don't act like you're offended. Try to make strong eye contact with her - if she locks eye with you for a moment, you act fake mad and say "Are you laughing at me?" (try to say it like DeNiro In Taxi Driver, maybe one of them will recognize it). And then watch reaction. If they turn away, game over. If they sey "yes" - you're IN. You can ask why, start talking with them... The key is that you're totally cool about it.

 

[whistler]

Yeah, they were definitely laughing at you, man.

They're women, they talk about guys who approach them, and they're immature.

Women laugh like they cry: constantly, regardless of whether there's a rational reason. Don't worry about it.

 

[Rebound Material]

yes sir, they were laughing at you. I think you might have known that the whole time actually.

 

[hi2u]

Even if they were laughing at you, it's OK. Most likely this group of girls gets their kicks out of rejecting guys, and when they do get one, they suck everything out of him, and dump him when he's empty. You don't want a girl like this anyway, even if it's a bang buddy. They're probably psycho too.

 

[Gettinthere]

Thanks for the replies all have there point of view and were good I like that.

And yes I do have insucurities but I am trying to overcome them as I point out in my other thrend about taking my shirt off which maynot be a big deal for some but to me it's is.

Again thanks.

 

[daSoCalpimp]

maybe your fly is open, happened to me once

 

[Gettinthere]

maybe your fly is open, happened to me once

You know I got to thinking on this after I posted.

I thought about what I was wearing that day. I had on jeans, Timberland boots and my AOL T-shirt with the little famous Icon on the back. Maybe they were getting a big laugh out of that but dam what a laugh but I do believe my fly was closed lol!

Thanks for the reply.

Gettinthere

 

[Silverback82]

there is no doubt they were laughing at you seeing as how you got rejected by one of them

 

[Gettinthere]

there is no doubt they were laughing at you seeing as how you got rejected by one of them

What gets me if this is true why would they be this way just because I was rejected by one of them. Hell it wasn't like I went up to the one and called her a fat butt loose weight and you'll be finer than a frogs hair but I approached in what I thought was a thoughtful way with a compliment. But maybe that gets some women started to make fun of a guy but to do it at their place of work gets me. I wonder if their boss heard this outburst of laughter and what she or he would of thought or said.

Anyway, I am find with it but a bit confused as to why women would be so mean spirited when I was kind hearted. I should have eat garlic before my approach with her>wink.

Gettinthere

 

[Socialreject]

The best way to find out is to turn around and say "wtf are you laughing about?!" ^^

 

[Brutus]

What gets me if this is true why would they be this way just because I was rejected by one of them ... Anyway, I am find with it but a bit confused as to why women would be so mean spirited when I was kind hearted.

Hmmm... You don't go out much, do you? Look man, they don't give a sh!t about how you feel. You're just some guy to them. They don't care if they hurt your feelings. This is why you shouldn't take things too seriously. If you do a lot of approaches, this things will happen, guaranteed.

But this doesn't mean they are "mean-spirited." In a way, they are like children. They just don't think about how this could affect a guy.

Most of the time you should just ignore this crap and don't let it get to you, because the truth is, it's not about you. She's the problem, not you. But if a girl is really disrespectful, strike back. Be an a$$. I like to scare them a little. Walk up to her really close, with a really pissed off look on your face and say: "What did you just say?" (Tony Soprano style). Next time she'll think twice before insulting some guy.

 

[Gettinthere]

Hmmm... You don't go out much, do you? Look man, they don't give a sh!t about how you feel. You're just some guy to them. They don't care if they hurt your feelings. This is why you shouldn't take things too seriously. If you do a lot of approaches, this things will happen, guaranteed.

But this doesn't mean they are "mean-spirited." In a way, they are like children. They just don't think about how this could affect a guy.

Most of the time you should just ignore this crap and don't let it get to you, because the truth is, it's not about you. She's the problem, not you. But if a girl is really disrespectful, strike back. Be an a$$. I like to scare them a little. Walk up to her really close, with a really pissed off look on your face and say: "What did you just say?" (Tony Soprano style). Next time she'll think twice before insulting some guy.

You read me like a book and your right I don't go out much.

I like the style of your approach if shes really disrepectful to me. I'd do it like this, I'd have a really pissed off look and say "where did you get your style from butch?"

Gettinthere