What does it mean to be ****y?

[ManOMan]

I was kinda confused about what it meant to be ****y, I always thought it was some guy who wasnt afraid to speak his mind and not afraid to put a girl in her place if she disrespects you.

what exactly makes a guy ****y? Is it like acting like you are gods gift to women? or accusing them of liking you or checking you out? or is it more like teasing women?



I know its a basic concept here, but I think I have it confused. and I cant see c/f working for me if I dont know what it means

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by ManOMan
I was kinda confused about what it meant to be ****y, I always thought it was some guy who wasnt afraid to speak his mind and not afraid to put a girl in her place if she disrespects you.

what exactly makes a guy ****y? Is it like acting like you are gods gift to women? or accusing them of liking you or checking you out? or is it more like teasing women?



I know its a basic concept here, but I think I have it confused. and I cant see c/f working for me if I dont know what it means

We're all gods gift to women. Some guys just don't realize it, though .

C/F is basically having humor in your sarcasm, busting her on her ****, showing her whos boss and putting her in her place.

 

[Cassidy]

****iness is a state brought about by a person openly expressing their (usually extreme) confidence in themselves. The concept of being ****y actually does not have anything to do with girls. Girls can be ****y too.

An athlete can be silently adamant that he will win his race. He does not openly say that he is sure that he will win, but he knows it in his heart and it shows. This is confidence.

Another athlete can be so sure that he is to win his race that he goes around telling everyone that he is the greatest sprinter on the face of the planet and can never be defeated, not even by God. This is either known as arrogance or extreme ****iness.

The term '****y and funny' refers to a type of humour that some people exhibit wherein they can aggrandise themselves in a humourous manner. This would normally be arrogant, but the fact that it is done with humour makes it more tolerable for the people listening. It is this type of humour that is said to work wonders with women.

Do not, however feel that being ****y and funny at the same time entails being an arrogant w*nker. Keep it light, do not think about it, and if it doesn't come naturally, don't fake it. You actually have to be confident to truly be ****y.

---Cassidy

 

[jester123]

BEING ****Y

HEY DUDE! HOW ARE YOU? BEING ****Y IS A STATE OF MIND. I WANT YOU TO PUT YOURSELF ON A PEDESTAL! NOT HER! WHEN SHE SAYS SHE IS HAVING A BAD HAIR DAY-TELL HER THAT "YEAH, i HAVE SEEN IT LOOK BETTER", AND LAUGH-IT IS FUN!!!!DONT BE TOO SERIOUS! YOU HAVE GOT TO BE IN THE STATE OF MIND THAT YOU CAN LOOK AWAY FROM HER AND KEEP WALKING-DUDE, DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE 2 MILLION CHICKS OUT THERE DYING TO MEET YOU!!!!!!!
BE A CHALLENGE AND NEVER LET HER KNOW HOW INTERESTED YOU ARE-DO THE KINO THING WITH TOUCHING-ONLY LET HER INITIATE IT FIRST!!!!! KEEP IT LITE AND FUN-ISNT THIS WHAT YOU WANT!!!!!!! RELAX MAN!!!!

 

[Omega]

Re: BEING ****Y

Originally posted by jester123
HEY DUDE! HOW ARE YOU? BEING ****Y IS A STATE OF MIND. I WANT YOU TO PUT YOURSELF ON A PEDESTAL! NOT HER! WHEN SHE SAYS SHE IS HAVING A BAD HAIR DAY-TELL HER THAT "YEAH, i HAVE SEEN IT LOOK BETTER", AND LAUGH-IT IS FUN!!!!DONT BE TOO SERIOUS! YOU HAVE GOT TO BE IN THE STATE OF MIND THAT YOU CAN LOOK AWAY FROM HER AND KEEP WALKING-DUDE, DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE 2 MILLION CHICKS OUT THERE DYING TO MEET YOU!!!!!!!
BE A CHALLENGE AND NEVER LET HER KNOW HOW INTERESTED YOU ARE-DO THE KINO THING WITH TOUCHING-ONLY LET HER INITIATE IT FIRST!!!!! KEEP IT LITE AND FUN-ISNT THIS WHAT YOU WANT!!!!!!! RELAX MAN!!!!

YOU LEFT YOUR CAPS LOCK ON! Oops, so did I

Please, for the sake of all your former DJ's eyes, DO NOT TYPE IN CAPITALS!


Thanks

 

[ManOMan]

thanks gents


Kino works great for me, but I find women usually dont initiate kino first unless they REALLY like you, are drunk, or know you pretty well.

Also as a side note, I wasnt sure if this was ****y or not, but Ive found everytime I accuse women of "wanting me" or "checking me out" or "secretly in love with me"

they always laugh. I can say the BEST joke in the world and they wont laugh, but as soon as I make ****y references about them wanting me, they start laughing (maybe blush laughing?)

I was just curious weather being ****y was just acting like you are gods gift to women and accusing them of wanting you

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

No matter how ****y you are, you are only a fraction of a step from being an @sshole.

Think about it.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

It took me a while to realize that being ****y isn't the way to go...unless you're just looking for a low-class broad to bang. Trade ****iness for confidence and self-assurance (which is easier said than done). The truth is that a truly confident individual doesn't need to add a coat of ****iness.

Its okay to be a lil ****y once in a while, just having a little fun or something, but dont make it a defining trait of your character.