What does it mean if she agrees to come over your house

[Freeman]

Well, what does it mean when a woman agrees to come over? I believe a woman has 2 motives when she comes over:

1. To see how *YOU* live

2.ANd if you play your cards right she plans to screw you.

Now this isn't set in stone...I mean sometimes when a woman wants to come over your house to watch a flick she could very well mean that she intends to watch the flick..ha yeah right--woman are the more cunning of the 2 genders and therefore when she agrees to come over your house she knows what could possibly happen and she's fine with that-especially if you make your feelings about her loud and clear...

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

It all depends on your and her morals and what you want.

Assuming both have sex before marriage then if you were out on a date or in a club and you asked her to come back to your place and she said yes then she wants to fvck.

If you are just "friends" and you invite her to your house to watch a movie alone. She damn near well ain't there for a movie.

Make a move!

Either way they don't care how you live or what is in your house. Only Gold Diggers do.

She is there for one thing and one thing only, YOU.

 

[Schlep]

Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
If you are just "friends" and you invite her to your house to watch a movie alone. She damn near well ain't there for a movie.

I disagree.

 

[milkman]

Sorry, can´t get the issue here.

If you don´t want the girl, then no matter what she is thinking.

If you want the girl, then how can it be that she might think you two are only friends?

You should make clear that she knows you like her from the beginning when you like her. She should also know, that she is something special for you.

Having said that, she should know, that when she will visit you for a movie that you most likely will enjoy watching this movie but that you even more will enjoy her being together with you.

In case she is only a friend: of course she can come visit you for only watching a movie. Again, really doesn´t get the issue here...

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by Schlep
I disagree.

Really because I never met a woman that went over mine or another dudes house alone, on his bed, just to watch a movie.

If you really believe that then I feel sorry for all the opportunities you had that you let slipped away.

 

[Schlep]

Well, the qualifier, "in the bed" changes everything.

I've had several friends who are women over to watch movies before, and that's all it was. There was no missed opportunity there, it wasn't there in the first place.

Now if by "friend" you mean someone who's not really that much of a friend, then you're right. When I think of "friend", I think of people I know well and are just friends.

 

[squirrels]

See, the problem here is that you're not sure where you stand with this girl.

You need to make your romantic intentions CLEAR from the GET-GO. She should know you're interested in her romantically from the very beginning.

If there's any doubt, or she thinks you guys are just friends, then she could honestly come in your house thinking platonically.

But if she KNOWS you are romantically into her, and you invite her over to "watch a DVD"...well, she could watch that DVD at her own damn house. She's coming over to hook up with you.

The way I think, there's only one reason why a woman spends any time in my house...I'm not talking about bathroom breaks or coming over when we're "getting ready to go out" either...I'm talking about significant time.

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by squirrels
See, the problem here is that you're not sure where you stand with this girl.

You need to make your romantic intentions CLEAR from the GET-GO. She should know you're interested in her romantically from the very beginning.

If there's any doubt, or she thinks you guys are just friends, then she could honestly come in your house thinking platonically.

But if she KNOWS you are romantically into her, and you invite her over to "watch a DVD"...well, she could watch that DVD at her own damn house. She's coming over to hook up with you.

The way I think, there's only one reason why a woman spends any time in my house...I'm not talking about bathroom breaks or coming over when we're "getting ready to go out" either...I'm talking about significant time.

Exactly--in all my experiences and hearing about the experiences of others...I conclude that "GENERALLY" when a chick who you are "loose friends" with agrees to come to your place for ANY reason-who knows your intentions- will not step foot in a MAN's House-if the thought of possibly screwin you wasn't in her mind...this isnt SEINFEILD people,an Elaine and Jerry friendship is far and between-A Woman knows the deal when she walks in...and if she plays the Friends card on you I would next her so fast its not even funny....Peace

"Never make someone your priority when you're only their option"

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by Freeman
Exactly--in all my experiences and hearing about the experiences of others...I conclude that "GENERALLY" when a chick who you are "loose friends" with agrees to come to your place for ANY reason-who knows your intentions- will not step foot in a MAN's House-if the thought of possibly screwin you wasn't in her mind...this isnt SEINFEILD people,an Elaine and Jerry friendship is far and between-A Woman knows the deal when she walks in...and if she plays the Friends card on you I would next her so fast its not even funny, real friends talk on a regular basis,they actually see each other more once a month,loose friends are people who you claim as friends but they really aren't....Peace

"Never make someone your priority when you're only their option"

 

[PeterCrouch]

A gal with a bf came over my house yesterday, we sat on my bed, she said its a great bed, very bouncey, shes a bit of an attention seeker and the whole bf thing, so when she flirted and stuff, just thought it was her being her tbh, we played some playstation, looked round my house, etc then because it was during the day we walked back to college!

was all good fun, maybe i should of made a move, im not so sure

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by PeterCrouch
A gal with a bf came over my house yesterday, we sat on my bed, she said its a great bed, very bouncey, shes a bit of an attention seeker and the whole bf thing, so when she flirted and stuff, just thought it was her being her tbh, we played some playstation, looked round my house, etc then because it was during the day we walked back to college!

was all good fun, maybe i should of made a move, im not so sure

Typically I dont go after chicks with BF's-just aint my thing...but in the case of your situation-there's no reason why you shouldn't of at least made an overture of affection or something...No way in hell would I be ALONE and in my own house with a chick and nothing happens...its not right to cheat yourself man---THE POWERS TO BE SETS THE STAGE,ITS UP TO US WHAT HAPPENS AFTERWARDS...

 

[DonJuanMonk]

It could mean anything, if in your mind you want to make out, have sex, or just watch a movie then that prophecy may come true.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by PeterCrouch
A gal with a bf came over my house yesterday, we sat on my bed, she said its a great bed, very bouncey, shes a bit of an attention seeker and the whole bf thing, so when she flirted and stuff, just thought it was her being her tbh, we played some playstation, looked round my house, etc then because it was during the day we walked back to college!

was all good fun, maybe i should of made a move, im not so sure

Dude...and I'm only going to say this once...A WOMAN HAS NO REASON TO BE IN YOUR BED IF SHE ISN"T GOING TO F**K YOU.

In that case, you should've either made your move or told her to get the f**k up.

 

[TxCowboy]

Originally posted by PeterCrouch
A gal with a bf came over my house yesterday, we sat on my bed, she said its a great bed, very bouncey, shes a bit of an attention seeker and the whole bf thing, so when she flirted and stuff, just thought it was her being her tbh, we played some playstation, looked round my house, etc then because it was during the day we walked back to college!

was all good fun, maybe i should of made a move, im not so sure

thats just sad ......

 

[dyce]

Originally posted by squirrels
Dude...and I'm only going to say this once...A WOMAN HAS NO REASON TO BE IN YOUR BED IF SHE ISN"T GOING TO F**K YOU.

In that case, you should've either made your move or told her to get the f**k up.

i dunno bro, my ex-gf was always in my bed bcoz theres nowhere else to sit. once i tried to make a move and she almost slapped me hahah

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by dyce
i dunno bro, my ex-gf was always in my bed bcoz theres nowhere else to sit. once i tried to make a move and she almost slapped me hahah

Why do you guys keep making these scenarios where the girl doesnt want to make out with you...Stop! thats insecurity talking-she's over for a purpose, not to watch a movie trust if me...if she has even the slightest guy experience she will know what could possibly happen there if you two are alone...she knows...if she agrees to come over when she hardly even knows you then she must, in some way, have an interest towards you.

 

[GirlCrazy]

You need to make your romantic intentions CLEAR from the GET-GO. She should know you're interested in her romantically from the very beginning.

EXACTLY! That used to be my problem. Once I started being crystal clear about my intentions from day one, dating became a lot more relaxing, and any chick that came over to my place was there for sex.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

Oh....F^ck Me..I had not one but two girls this summer. That I totally screwed my chances with. Had them come over to watch a movie...The first girl was a year older than me and lived next door.... Yeah hot girl next door. Anyways I got c^ckblocked by my damn dog! The dog lay right between us the whole time I didnt wanna kick the dog in the ass... told him to get down he didnt.. I swear I hate that dog..he's the biggest attention ***** I've seen. l8ter on in the summer she didnt really talk to me or anything..I was like whatever..she was a spoiled dady's girl anywayz..

Girl two: HB9 who was a hostess at my old restaurant job..was there chating with my friends/ old co-workers I have uber social proof there.. people are like who the flock is that stud getting talked to by everyone. When the shifts were changing I was starting to leave.. and saw her leaving as well. Called her over and asked her if she wanted to come over and relax at my place..got the whole B Shield at first but broke that down. My house was a block away. She came over we watched part of a movie had some beers.. though she had to leave to go to dinner with her grandparents like a major family get together. I closed the get together early before she could.. got the # called her a week later and used some ****y n funny like (.... blah blah blah....Me: Your just saying that to get in my pants. she was sketched out and I was like wtf I was joking..) Later on after I nexted her I got word from her about me from her sister fat biotch... that I now worked with *sigh* saying that I sexually harrassed her... and that she was afraid of me... Whatever crazy ho.. give me the signals and not mature enough to talk about sex lightly...


Well its better to be feared than be some Nice-guy that gets walked over... Least I established that im not some nice guy AFC

Now her fat-arse sister is coming on to me...after she talked sh!t and I put my foot down. Cause I wouldnt stand for it

Yeah I havent really thought about this subject about coming over to your house.. that they wanna f^ck