"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What does Intense mean?

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Energizer

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When a woman says you're intense. What is she referring too? What does it mean and is it a positive or a negative? A chick I'm interested in and who seems interested to me, referred to me as being intense. Never heard a woman use that description before and I have never seen that term banded about on this site, any insight would be appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Energizer said:
When a woman says you're intense. What is she referring too? What does it mean and is it a positive or a negative? A chick I'm interested in and who seems interested to me, referred to me as being intense. Never heard a woman use that description before and I have never seen that term banded about on this site, any insight would be appreciated.
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Intense == Good Intense -- It could be any of a combination of "causing strong feelings in her", "focused", "feels your inner strength", "feels your inner confidence", "drive", all the Alpha stuff pretty much.

Creepy == Bad Intense -- Your focus is unwanted and unsettling, causing bad feelings for whatever reason (nothing personal very often), maybe unstable, etc...
 
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She's interested in me as I am interested in her, so I'll go for the first one. Cheers, I assumed she was being negative, despite me knowing she wants me. I assumed it was her version of a neg. I guess I am intense, if I'm interested in a bird, I make sure she knows it. I guess it's an added confidence from reading the DJ bible and attracting some pretty decent meat.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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