What does everyone thnk (Not a long BS story)

[aolsuxs]

This is more of a rhetorical question and I am sure the answers I get will kick my ass back into gear:

Anyways if a girl starts asking you for advice on dating /starts telling you her sexual...experience and what not your in the friend zone. I have no problem with that, what I don't get is recently I've had felt I've met some great girls and attraction seems to be there, tons of kino, they inititae the contact, they set up stuff, flirting, high intereest etc etc.

Then they pulll a fast one on me and either want me to meet their BF or in a recentl case, this girl was telling me how she hooked up with some guy the other day at the library or osmething. I was pretty pissed but held my compasion. The AFC part of me wants to think they want o get me jealous play hard to get or whatever but I know its a lost cause. I am just dumbfounded at the level of interest they show me, at first I thought I was just attracting sunshine girls or something but its a reoccuring trend that girls see something in me for them to lead me on and then **** me over.

I just had to get this rant off my chest. Thanks for listening.

 

[aolsuxs]

Thoughts?

 

[Blizzard128]

Woman are flirts, that's just how it is. They send out false signals all the time and have no intentions of going out with you.

I love how people say things like "If she twirls her hair, she's interested. If she looks at you with a certain gaze, she's interested. If she shows you a certain body language gesture, she's interested, etc. etc."

90% of the time it's crap and they're just kidding

 

[aolsuxs]

Agreed but it was more then a little hair twirl, I felt there was somethng there, she wanted to come over one night but I had to get up early, I am usually very good at differentiating between the friendly flirts and something more serious...but I guess not in thsi case/

 

[Blizzard128]

Ohh, she wanted you to come over one night? And still gives you the cold shoulder?

If a girl ever did that to me, I would call her a b!tch every time I saw her. I have absolutely zero tolerance for AW's. Even if it's one I'm really attracted to.

 

[defiancy]

Originally posted by Blizzard128
Woman are flirts, that's just how it is. They send out false signals all the time and have no intentions of going out with you.

I love how people say things like "If she twirls her hair, she's interested. If she looks at you with a certain gaze, she's interested. If she shows you a certain body language gesture, she's interested, etc. etc."

90% of the time it's crap and they're just kidding

how long do u think they'lll falsely flirt with you? I'm kind of getting tired of trying to get a date

teh chances of real interest arent high huh if u didint talk to a girl taht much...

i was just giving this one girl eye contact and when i ignored her she kept on glancing at me. This target is a "shy" girl and we both flirt with the eyes

bah

 

[chad2k5]

blizzard's right. i've had girls flirt with me like mad, but when I asked them out or asked them for their phone number, they said no.

so yeah a majority of the girls are just flirts.

 

[fivefingers]

I AGREE THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN ****ING FLIRT WITH YOU AND MANIPLUATE YOU. THEY DONT GIVE A **** ABOUT YOU. THEY SAY OH I AM GOING TO CALL U TOMMORO AND THEY DONT THEY SAY OH I LIKE U YOUR NICE AND THEY DONT TALK TO U NEXT DAY ****ING SLY

****ING HATE THOSE *****ES

Originally posted by Blizzard128
Woman are flirts, that's just how it is. They send out false signals all the time and have no intentions of going out with you.

I love how people say things like "If she twirls her hair, she's interested. If she looks at you with a certain gaze, she's interested. If she shows you a certain body language gesture, she's interested, etc. etc."

90% of the time it's crap and they're just kidding

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Ever see the movie "The Matrix"?

There's that classic line Morpheus tells Neo:

Neo: "You mean I can dodge bullets?"
Morpheus: "When the time comes...you won't have to"

What does this have to do with women?

It will ultimately boil down to her SERIOUSNESS and LEVEL of INTEREST IN YOU. PERIOD.

Interest can't just be gauged like some mathematical formula how the woman sits, how she twirls her hair...and blah blah. (like the poster stated above me...I find that stuff funny too).

Real interest level is gauged on DESIRE. If a woman truely DESIRES YOU...SHE WILL SHOW YOU.

If you set a date..she'll be on time.
If you set a date..she won't flake.
If she cancells a date..she will quickly give you a reschedule.
If she cancells a date..it will be for a VERY GOOD reason.

If she DESIRES you and isn't playing head games...then you won't have to dodge bullets...you will see that she is truely interested in you and wouldnt have to be asking all these questions about it.

So how do you gain her desire? There's pages and pages of this stuff in the DJB..for me...it comes down to very simple things:

1)CONFIDENCE...mentally...accepting what you are, how life is and striving to make things better.

2)CONFIDENCE...physically...working out, sweating, being strong, fit, and lean.

With these two things, you will develope your inner game. After you build these two things...start reading the DJB.

 

[I-am-someone]

Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
Ever see the movie "The Matrix"?

There's that classic line Morpheus tells Neo:

Neo: "You mean I can dodge bullets?"
Morpheus: "When the time comes...you won't have to"

What does this have to do with women?

It will ultimately boil down to her SERIOUSNESS and LEVEL of INTEREST IN YOU. PERIOD.

Interest can't just be gauged like some mathematical formula how the woman sits, how she twirls her hair...and blah blah. (like the poster stated above me...I find that stuff funny too).

Real interest level is gauged on DESIRE. If a woman truely DESIRES YOU...SHE WILL SHOW YOU.

If you set a date..she'll be on time.
If you set a date..she won't flake.
If she cancells a date..she will quickly give you a reschedule.
If she cancells a date..it will be for a VERY GOOD reason.

If she DESIRES you and isn't playing head games...then you won't have to dodge bullets...you will see that she is truely interested in you and wouldnt have to be asking all these questions about it.

So how do you gain her desire? There's pages and pages of this stuff in the DJB..for me...it comes down to very simple things:

1)CONFIDENCE...mentally...accepting what you are, how life is and striving to make things better.

2)CONFIDENCE...physically...working out, sweating, being strong, fit, and lean.

With these two things, you will develope your inner game. After you build these two things...start reading the DJB.

What he said... good post!
I wholeheartedly agree.

Women are attracted to strength.
Confidence is simply strength. Working out makes you appear strong. Humor is a strength. However, being strong in all aspects of your life will make women get wet just thinking about you .

 

[Fenderules]

Originally posted by aolsuxs
Agreed but it was more then a little hair twirl, I felt there was somethng there, she wanted to come over one night but I had to get up early, I am usually very good at differentiating between the friendly flirts and something more serious...but I guess not in thsi case/

they always feel its something more. i'v had that experience 2 and got nowhere, but i dunno if thats cause i was being a wuss when it happened or cause they were a-*****s

 

[Fenderules]

lol hi my name is ****!

 

[Fenderules]

that is so stupid that D I C K is considered a bad word. Its a name for crying out loud!