It started out as a joke at work. Long story short my coworker made a slight joke/rumor that I'm a low key male stripper. Word is going around the office and I've had a multiple women come to me during lunch hour wondering if I would be interested in going to their bachlorette parties. Although I've never stripped before the idea is hilarious. I'm in really good shape too lol. Anybody have any experience with that industry? What do you guys think?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What does everyone think about Male Stripping
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BetterCallSaul
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No experience personally nor do I even know anything about it. My suggestion however would be if you want to keep this persona up, yet put out any fires that may pop up at work, simply say you don't do any sort of parties for people you work with. It keeps it professional and you're not risking your job with some HR BS. Either that or play aloof, say you don't know what they're talking about with a wink or something like that.
Now if you are serious about wanting to give this a try, I have no info to offer.
Now if you are serious about wanting to give this a try, I have no info to offer.
LiveFreeX
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
taiyuu_otoko
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If you do it, NEVER let people you work with know about it.
But if it floats your boat and you can make some cash, why the hell not?
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Most are gays. Fact!
mrgoodstuff
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"bi" not all out "gay". Many are "bi".
ashleysummer
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Yeap... agree
mrgoodstuff
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It's still a good goal for a DJ to have a stripper like body. These guys are at the right size for women to lust after, so it's a great goal for a straight to have a similar build. I tell people they are usually sized and muscled similar to a NBA point guard to a NFL corner back, not smaller and not bigger. This is the sweet spot for generating lust in females.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Bible_Belt
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It's one of the few occupations that warrant using roids or hgh. The more ripped you are, the more money you make.
I always have wanted to stake out a Chippendales show...and just happen to be at the nearest bar after the show let out. Buying temperature is transferable.
I always have wanted to stake out a Chippendales show...and just happen to be at the nearest bar after the show let out. Buying temperature is transferable.
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I like the suggestions to just play it off and let them think it but never do it. I've never met a male stripper but it seems a little obvious to sit around and say "they're all gay or bi" that sounds a little jealous to me. If I had the body, I'd do it and I'm far from gay. Sounds like easy money to me and I bet every once in awhile you get a free bang with a decent looking customer. I would think it would be a pretty sweet gig.
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You can call it jealousy, but I'm just reporting what I've observed. I certainly can't speak about all male strippers, I'm just saying that the ones that I've met were either bisexual or gay. Whatever. It's certainly not an occupation I would be interested in.
This may be overly judgmental of me, but I don't think much of strippers, whether they be male OR female. For some guys here, it's their ultimate fantasy to bang a stripper. But to me, they're barely a step above being a prostitute.
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Most have alcohol and drugs issues, they are probably (90%) gays.... especially at male strippers club reserved to women (you don't want ****).....
Been to a male strip club.... girls go wild
They have great bodies
About your work, tease them a little, especially the girl you like... than make it dissapear cause the longer the joke last the more you'll have that reputation and put a end to your job
Been to a male strip club.... girls go wild
They have great bodies
About your work, tease them a little, especially the girl you like... than make it dissapear cause the longer the joke last the more you'll have that reputation and put a end to your job
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I know a male stripper, he has done some shows like chippendales but 80% of his work is at gay clubs. hes a bodybuilder too and has been rumored to go gay4pay. i wouldnt doubt it but whatever i dont judge. its not a very honorable profession. I just try and think...what would I tell my kids oh hey your dad was rocking a banana hammock at a bachelorette party...IDK seems trashy/not a good look for an alpha male. I think we should be able to do better then resort to prostitution.
mrgoodstuff
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You know those ladies are ready to phvck, and it's true. They will svck strippers c0cks onstage for entertainment.
mrgoodstuff
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They end up doing "gay" $hit for the money, that's what ends up happening... But you don't have to. Since these guys are money motivated, often times they go in just like you and realize they can make more money working mostly gays... Over time they might let one svck his c0ck or hit him in the a$$ for $$$.