rutgersman
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Does this mean not to kiss her butt?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What does "do not supplicate to her " mean?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Wow, you are one helpless dude if you can't look up "supplicate" in a dictionary.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Please don't be offended, because I need you to like me. I am really lucky to have the chance to be here with you, and I will do anything to please you.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Yeah. I'm sorry rutgersman if I offended you with that last post. Will you please forgive me? How can I make it up to you?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree with Maximus.Maximus_Decimus said:
Although, under certain "special" conditions..."supplicating" can work. But that is only when manipulation takes place and ONLY a very talented "player" or a con-man can pull that stuff off. After all, they are not REALLY "supplicating". They are either buying time or setting their prey.
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