rutgersman
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Does this mean not to kiss her butt?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What does "do not supplicate to her " mean?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Wow, you are one helpless dude if you can't look up "supplicate" in a dictionary.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Please don't be offended, because I need you to like me. I am really lucky to have the chance to be here with you, and I will do anything to please you.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Yeah. I'm sorry rutgersman if I offended you with that last post. Will you please forgive me? How can I make it up to you?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I agree with Maximus.Maximus_Decimus said:
Although, under certain "special" conditions..."supplicating" can work. But that is only when manipulation takes place and ONLY a very talented "player" or a con-man can pull that stuff off. After all, they are not REALLY "supplicating". They are either buying time or setting their prey.
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