"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what does being a masochist say about a girl

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so lets say youre having sex with a girl, and truly enjoys pain a little too much... were not talking about little bites here, im talking about bites that are really hard, slapping that sort of thing... i had sex with this kinda girl the other night, in my opinion is good if she can take little playful bites or a little spanking, but to be beggining for really painful ****....is something that im really not into....it says that the girl is not femenine enough
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My last girlfriend liked to be spanked and bitten. She even asked for me to use a whip on her. I would flick the end of it on her butt making red lines across it. She loved it. Harder! Harder!
 
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Everybody's different mate.

If it ain't your thing,no worries,just don't indulge.

I disagree with it meaning she's not feminine enough though.....I've found that the more of a good girl image a woman has to stick to in her normal,everyday life the rougher she'll tend to want it.

YMMV.

Send her round her:yes:
 
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well femenist are well into masochism and all that....are femenists women enough for you? are they into you taking control? or are they into taking control themselves and being independent? if a girl is into taking control and being independent, in my opinion she is not the woman a real man needs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Fatality
she probably got beat when she was younger
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I'd agree with that to some extent.
Perhaps not beating in an abusive manner but getting a smack when she did something wrong.

IMOE the women who liked it rough would quite often say things like "I've been a bad girl.....punish me" or "I'm such a dirty little bit-ch and I need to be taught a lesson".

Who knows?

Who cares?

Dirty sex is good sex:yes:
 
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Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
I'd agree with that to some extent.
Perhaps not beating in an abusive manner but getting a smack when she did something wrong.

IMOE the women who liked it rough would quite often say things like "I've been a bad girl.....punish me" or "I'm such a dirty little bit-ch and I need to be taught a lesson".

Who knows?

Who cares?

Dirty sex is good sex:yes:
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im not saying dirty sex is bad, but thats all ive been finding latley...dirty sex, just one night stands, i cant find a respectable girl who will hold sex back.
 
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undespetable....relax bro..

I mean...is this really that serious? I think you are over analyzing this stuff a little too much...

So your girl likes it rough....and that means she is not a woman? Hmmmmmmm

We all have our sexual preferences....hell, sometimes I like slow sex, sometimes I like fast and rough sex...it just depends...

How would that make her not a woman, I have no idea of what the hell you are talking about? But I do know this...you are really over analyzing something that has nothing to do with anything....

haha...my girl likes rough sex so she must not be woman enough...hahaah, what the hell?
 
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