"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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why everyone hating on my boy cord? he just posted a pic of his girl who happens to be Asian? so what.

my fiancee i assure you has the thickest accent of any GF here on this forum that lives in the states. sometimes i don't even know what the **** she's saying. i think it's sexy though so I don't push her to work on it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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f283000 said:
I wonder if she's with cordon just for the green card like a lot of asian girls use white guys for :eek:

Cordon, while the is certainly pretty which I don't deny I think you might be going off the wrong path here brother. This is what the 100th time you post her pic/talk about her and show her off in the forums.

I just worry what will happen when things go sour and you guys break up. You will end up feeling like _____.

It's never a good sign when you end up showing off your gf to other people and putting her on a pedestal. You build her up to be this great thing and next thing you know she's gone. I'm not saying it will happen soon or anything but you should be careful. Girlfriends are disposable and the more you make them as sort of a prize the harder it will be coping without them.
Haha, well like I said she is as American as Megan Fox. Fully a US citizen, been here since age 5, no accent, girly sexy voice, knows as much about this country's history and its culture as anyone I know, eats mainly American food-actually had never had sushi until I introduced her to it, and works as an accountant and has a history/literature degree.

As far as putting her on a pedestal, I think I have only posted her pic here twice, and I would love to see other guys here with gf's post some pics. Nothing to hide. I think it helps to give some real life faces behind the stories we read and the people we see here.

And believe me I understand what you are talking about. But....we have a pretty equal relationship, though I do lead. I generally decide what we are doing (where we go out, where to eat, vacations, etc, though I always ask her what she wants to do), she generally defers to me in private and public. So while I do think she is a really great gf and I am as attracted to her a year and a half later as I was the day I met her, it's not like we have this fantasy Hallmark relationship and my mind is off in gaga land. But it is the best relationship Ive ever been in. She really is the most relaxed girl Ive ever been with.

BB check your PM's.
 

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Damn props to my ninja Cord for the pics, your girl is FIONE

Funny how Big Jumbo is the first one to hate as usual:rolleyes: and keeps posting youtube links of that asian guy, I'm starting to wonder if Big Jumbo might be him on the low

:kick:
 

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So um... Cordon... um, where ya from dude... would you be interested in doing a switch-er-oo at some point if we're around your vicinity?... haha!!!! Very nice though man, hopefully she's quite adept at handling cack as well.

Here's my fiance... the first couple of shots in this album are newer. The rest are older. I'd rate her around an 8.

http://s102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/

Here's a promo vid she did for a local landscaping company... haha totally looks like the start of a porn shoot!!! I laugh every time I watch it!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3TCKD3HGWVM
 

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Solomon said:
Damn props to my ninja Cord for the pics, your girl is FIONE

Funny how Big Jumbo is the first one to hate as usual:rolleyes: and keeps posting youtube links of that asian guy, I'm starting to wonder if Big Jumbo might be him on the low

:kick:
I wasn't hating on cordon I have no reason to hate. I was just joking around.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cordoncordon said:
Pure Asian women in Taiwan, Thailand, Japan, etc are much more beautiful imo if you want to compare Asians specifically.
For me, Vietnamese chicks are the hottest Asians but it's hard to find one with good English.
 

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Fuglydude said:
So um... Cordon... um, where ya from dude... would you be interested in doing a switch-er-oo at some point if we're around your vicinity?... haha!!!! Very nice though man, hopefully she's quite adept at handling cack as well.

Here's my fiance... the first couple of shots in this album are newer. The rest are older. I'd rate her around an 8.

http://s102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/

Here's a promo vid she did for a local landscaping company... haha totally looks like the start of a porn shoot!!! I laugh every time I watch it!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3TCKD3HGWVM
Hey I'm in LA. Ahhhh yes I remember you from a few years ago, and your gf. You're still working out I see? Nice!
 

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Bluntmaster said:
I wasn't hating on cordon I have no reason to hate. I was just joking around.

Hold up so Bluntmaster=Big Jimbo?

seriously?

ha ha it makes sense now
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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about 6 months ago we were watching a movie called her name is carla, Julianne Nicholson, who gets butt naked in every movie she's in for some reason, not that i'm complaining, was riding the **** out of this dude. my **** got hard and my fiancee saw me pitching a tent and got mad. damn near pulled it out lol
 
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