"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What does a good woman mean to you?

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My motivation for starting this thread is due to the over-saturation of negativity with regards to women. So, it gives me the impression that there are very few good women and if 85% of the guys on this site are saying next her, break up with her and don't try to work it out with her. Where are all the good women then?
So, my question to you guys is what is your definition or idea of a good woman. For those of you who supposed have these good women yet still cheat on them. Why do you it while expecting them to be faithful to you? My question is more directed to those of you in exclusive/committed relationships. I know there are many of you in here who feel this is ok (acceptable for men to have multiple women but women to only have one man).

Over to you guys. I really want to know. I get the impression that men are the sole owners of calling the shots on women/men sexual relationship should work. Back in the old times I can understand this reasoning considering women couldn't vote, didn't work outside of the home etc. Today the world has changed. So, why are we as men still hung up having the sole say on how this relationship dynamic should work but women don't? If the man's view point is the natural order of things then why do women still engage in the manly behavior of having multiple male partners while hiding it, the same way guys are hiding it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Unfortunately for you the mere fact you're asking men what constitutes as a good woman proves you've never actually come across one. If you ever do you're going to look back on this thread and shake your head.
jafyk said:
So, my question to you guys is what is your definition or idea of a good woman.
Here is a good woman. If your woman ticks most of these boxes and manages to resist the plague of obesity she's a good woman. And yes they exist in the West, that's the good news. Bad news is you'll probably never find one.

jafyk said:
For those of you who supposed have these good women yet still cheat on them. Why do you it while expecting them to be faithful to you? My question is more directed to those of you in exclusive/committed relationships.
Because the ideology of "equalism" is for moustached femcunts who can't acquire a top tier male so go about handicapping everyone else as to have an equal footing. That plus women ovulate only 12 times a year and men produce millions of sperm each day for a reason.

The sexes are different and are made to handle different scenarios, deal with it. Stop talking like a cathedral indoctrinated white chick brah. I prescribe a week in the wilderness and 2 months away from the TV.

Questions?

Goodluck.
 

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Unfortunately for you the mere fact you're asking men what constitutes as a good woman proves you've never actually come across one. If you ever do you're going to look back on this thread and shake your head.


Here is a good woman. If your woman ticks most of these boxes and manages to resist the plague of obesity she's a good woman. And yes they exist in the West, that's the good news. Bad news is you'll probably never find one.



Because the ideology of "equalism" is for moustached femcunts who can't acquire a top tier male so go about handicapping everyone else as to have an equal footing. That plus women ovulate only 12 times a year and men produce millions of sperm each day for a reason.

The sexes are different and are made to handle different scenarios, deal with it. Stop talking like a cathedral indoctrinated white chick brah. I prescribe a week in the wilderness and 2 months away from the TV.

Questions?

Goodluck.
Lmfao. Are you actually serious? That article is from 1955. You're essentially looking for a unicorn. Lmfao.
 

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jafyk said:
My motivation for starting this thread is due to the over-saturation of negativity with regards to women. So, it gives me the impression that there are very few good women and if 85% of the guys on this site are saying next her, break up with her and don't try to work it out with her. Where are all the good women then?
So, my question to you guys is what is your definition or idea of a good woman. For those of you who supposed have these good women yet still cheat on them. Why do you it while expecting them to be faithful to you? My question is more directed to those of you in exclusive/committed relationships. I know there are many of you in here who feel this is ok (acceptable for men to have multiple women but women to only have one man).

Over to you guys. I really want to know. I get the impression that men are the sole owners of calling the shots on women/men sexual relationship should work. Back in the old times I can understand this reasoning considering women couldn't vote, didn't work outside of the home etc. Today the world has changed. So, why are we as men still hung up having the sole say on how this relationship dynamic should work but women don't? If the man's view point is the natural order of things then why do women still engage in the manly behavior of having multiple male partners while hiding it, the same way guys are hiding it?
My idea of a good woman doesn't exist in today's hookup culture.
 

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There are good women. The problem usually is they're not that great looking or they're complete prude which cause most of us to give us.

Not many good-looking girls are good, I can tell you that from my time in college.

They just get too much attention and have too much power at that young age.

If they're bright, they give themselves to a few alpha bf, and one of the alpha might shag them up and stop the slut cycle.

If they're not that bright, they completely slut it up.

Either way, it's not a good situation.

Rare case scenario, you find that great-looking young girl who hasn't slut it up. But this is only the beginning, doesn't mean the rest of the story will be sunshine.

My time in college, I've usually observe two types of situation.

That good-looking girl dating some kind of tom brady look-alike, usually in some fraternity.

That guy might lock them down or accident knock up the girl. End of story.
Or the girl gets dumped and move on to the next alpha.

These are the top-tier looking girls that are still somewhat selective.

Then comes the other kind of good-looking girls, they slut it up completely at frat parties and go mad with all the power. They only **** semi-good looking guys or above though.
You wanna stay far away from these for anything long-term.

Some alphas who failed to screen might end up with one of these girls.

Then there are the rare rare HB who are extremely religious, borderline fanatics.

This is the best us guys can hope for in the 21st century.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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