What do you when...

[devrob]

A cute girl plops down next to you at Starbucks? She had her leg crossed toward me. I looked over and she was looking the other way. I went back to typing on my laptop and I could sense her looking at me then. I look back and she's looking the other way again.

There were other empty seats. Like 5-6 that she could have sat at. Say "hi"? Isn't that weird when you don't even know her? I don't want to use a dumb pickup line either.

I sensed that maybe she sat next to me for a reason. But maybe I'm reading too much into it. What do you think?

I don't get much of a chance to meet girls any where else, so I want to know what to do in these situations.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

"You're good..." She stops and looks at you "...but apparently not good enough "

Either make a c&f joke about her glancing at you or say hey and start talking; my above example is more like push/pull because her act of glancing at you is already an IOI. C&f and push/pull are both attraction amplifiers (sparkers as well sometimes.)
Most guys start conversation with fluff, some with opinion, but both ways can lead to rapport.

Rule #1: just because she's good looking doesn't mean she's your type; you need to qualify her by finding out if she's fun and what she's all about. Act like you have high standards.
Trust me, if she's interested it'll work. If not, hey you can't expect every single girl on the planet to be attracted to you. It's no big deal when you consider the big picture: yourself!

 

[jophil28]

A cute girl plops down next to you at Starbucks? She had her leg crossed toward me. I looked over and she was looking the other way. I went back to typing on my laptop and I could sense her looking at me then. I look back and she's looking the other way again.

There were other empty seats. Like 5-6 that she could have sat at. Say "hi"? Isn't that weird when you don't even know her? I don't want to use a dumb pickup line either.

I sensed that maybe she sat next to me for a reason. But maybe I'm reading too much into it. What do you think?

I don't get much of a chance to meet girls any where else, so I want to know what to do in these situations.

You say," Hey, by all means sit there until Jessica shows up."

She, " What ! Who's she ?"

You, " You don't know who Jessica is? She is kinda famous, and a good friend too .You will like her. "

She, "You're kidding me right ? "

Now you have her absolute attention - what you do with it is down to you .

 

[The Grey Fox]

Say hi when your eyes meet, if you're interested in her then start some small talk. If you are confident, funny etc and you get a decent conversation going she'll probably give you her number.

 

[It's-Me]

"You're good..." She stops and looks at you "...but apparently not good enough "

Good one bro!

 

[moneyisking]

"hi, I noticed you were staring at me", but of course, i wouldn't even use this line. I would just say watsup. I mean.... who gives a sh!T?