"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you want?

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yoimjamie

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As guys, what do you want out of the whole dating situation?

a lot of the advice i see is geared toward making a great first impression towards a random female, and it's good advice, don't get me wrong...

but is that what you all want? am i the odd one out that couldn't give two ****s about random pickups and wants to get to know everyone properly before making any sort of move at all?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cod3r

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For me, dating is ultimately to find a quality girl to enter into a LTR with


-Cod3r
 
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kyphan

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Cod3r said:
For me, dating is ultimately to find a quality girl to enter into a LTR with


-Cod3r
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Same here.

Except to get to know someone properly you'll have to make some moves. It's a heckuva lot more fun that way, too.
 
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