"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you want?

yoimjamie

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As guys, what do you want out of the whole dating situation?

a lot of the advice i see is geared toward making a great first impression towards a random female, and it's good advice, don't get me wrong...

but is that what you all want? am i the odd one out that couldn't give two ****s about random pickups and wants to get to know everyone properly before making any sort of move at all?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cod3r

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For me, dating is ultimately to find a quality girl to enter into a LTR with


-Cod3r
 

kyphan

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Cod3r said:
For me, dating is ultimately to find a quality girl to enter into a LTR with


-Cod3r
Same here.

Except to get to know someone properly you'll have to make some moves. It's a heckuva lot more fun that way, too.
 
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