"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you want from a woman?

Heretolearn

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Serious question and not for a personal ad :)

1. What do you think you need from a partner?

2. What do you want from a partner?



3. I wonder if we think we need and want a woman because we generally grow up with a woman looking after us (mum). Then leave the nest and work hard so want another woman to look after us (wife).

What do you think about that?

my answers
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1. Nothing Eg. I can cook and clean and all the other stuff (or pay someone else to do it even sex if one was so inclined).

Ahh but just thought of one thing. Love that is something I cannot get.

2. Want - someone to have fun through this life with (partner fun)


So does that mean we go through this much for love?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Heretolearn

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I should add I considered children but figured you could adopt.


Are we all lonely in a way?
 

true|hockey

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1. just someone to be there for the highs and lows in life. Seeing how ive never really had a gf, i don't really need all that much otherwise.

2. echoing your statement exactly, someone to have fun through this life with. I could not have said it better.
 

MackJr

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The only reason I used to see for a woman were children and regular sex. You can get men who are better friends.

Now I'm a little older and I'm realizing that it might help from a health standpoint. If I had a heart attack or an accident, or was old and needed help living, I'd be better off with a wife.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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