"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you want from a woman?

Heretolearn

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Serious question and not for a personal ad :)

1. What do you think you need from a partner?

2. What do you want from a partner?



3. I wonder if we think we need and want a woman because we generally grow up with a woman looking after us (mum). Then leave the nest and work hard so want another woman to look after us (wife).

What do you think about that?

my answers
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1. Nothing Eg. I can cook and clean and all the other stuff (or pay someone else to do it even sex if one was so inclined).

Ahh but just thought of one thing. Love that is something I cannot get.

2. Want - someone to have fun through this life with (partner fun)


So does that mean we go through this much for love?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Heretolearn

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I should add I considered children but figured you could adopt.


Are we all lonely in a way?
 

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1. just someone to be there for the highs and lows in life. Seeing how ive never really had a gf, i don't really need all that much otherwise.

2. echoing your statement exactly, someone to have fun through this life with. I could not have said it better.
 

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The only reason I used to see for a woman were children and regular sex. You can get men who are better friends.

Now I'm a little older and I'm realizing that it might help from a health standpoint. If I had a heart attack or an accident, or was old and needed help living, I'd be better off with a wife.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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