"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you usually follow up with?

Laidback33k3l

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Hey fellas!

Like you've probably already read in the title, my question for this thread will be what you guys do after opening a complete stranger.

You've probably opened her up with a funny/situational or rather serious opener, perhaps you've exchanged names already.. but then?

Of course you can always use the standard situational ones about the music or the heat but those won't get you into a real topic, so what do you usually follow up with? Do you have a bunch of questions prepared or?


Thanks!
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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devilkingx2

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just comment on something you see, either around or on her.

or talk about movies/music/current events
 

Callmejoe

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What are you trying to accomplish with this stranger? If you just want her to smile and have a nice day, then smile and say have a nice day.

If you want to get her in bed, then first ascertain whether she wants you (the eyes give it away). If she wants you, then just write down your number and tell her to txt you as you smile and say have a nice day. She will.
 

No.Danny

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Soo....... You want the D .... or nahh?
 
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