"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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setlur55

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First of all I wanted to say this site rocks!!! I can honestly say this site has changed my life for the better! I wanted to ask this forum for some advice on a woman issue (what else). I met this female friend of mine last week, which I have known for about 3 years, but I have only seen her less than 5 times in those 3 years and had loose e-mail contact with her over that time. I have always quite liked her, but unfortunately she always had a boyfriend, but not now. She told me she split up with her former boyfriend and that hey might get together again. I decided to try some of the tips from this web-site and other vendors on her and see what happened. The result was quite astonishing and interesting for other fellow DJs. This stuff really works well, in a period of three hours I could see her attitude change vis-à-vis me. It seems that the less I cared about the situation and her overall the better effect it had on her. As the evening progressed I got more and more of some definite body signals, like her touching and brushing her hair constantly, she laughing at every joke I made (no matter how lame). She also definitely leaned forward more and more towards me as the evening progressed. Her clearest move definitely was as at one point in the evening where she stretched her shoulders back (to emphasise her top). As the evening came to an end I noticed that she got really nervous (and I mean really nervous) and she started playing around with literally every object on the table. We also started to have really long eye contact (and I mean in the end we were just continuously gazing into each other eyes). She had a cold and therefore we had to end the evening earlier than she wanted and she kept complaining about her cold and how she still wanted to do something and she literally asked me 3 times what I was still going to do. We rode the subway back together and as she left the subway she literally shouted over half the wagon that she was not going to kiss me (I assume she meant on my cheek but I am not sure) as she had a cold. You should have seen the look of the people sitting close to me. My question is how reliable are all of the body signals in actually meaning that I might have success with this woman? I have listed the various signals I got and I would appreciate your feedback! What should be my further approach towards her, I want to invite her to my place. If she accepts should I make my move then? Thank you for your help!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Black_Italian

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You’re a rebound she just got out of a serious relationship and you’re her rebound guy. This is not necessarily a bad thing take advantage of the situation while it lasts. After all that’s what being a DJ is all about taking advantage of every situation…………..
 

themanwithnoname

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rebound don't mean he'll be used, it just means he was the interim guy, the guy she couldn't click deep enough but was good enough as a teddy bear.
 
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