"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zolo

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I am 29, she wil be 20 in September?

I know I can have her, but Is she too young for me?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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scordate

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no I think you are way too old
pass her on to me, please !

seriously; it depends;

how serious is she about your relation ?

how mature is she ?

you are the older one and should take some adult responsability; no DJ like to be known as he who broke a teenagers heart just to f***k her

but 20 year old girls are fickle so you need to make up your mind today or at least this week; next week she has other interests !

/ scordate
 

Chrispy

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Originally posted by zolo
I am 29, she wil be 20 in September?

I know I can have her, but Is she too young for me?
Just do it. She's not too young, you're not too old. Know that at that age they are flakey and are in school, so you'll have to deal with all that school-talk bable (what are you studying? how was class? etc).

Have fun, learn from it (if it doesn't last) and ride it if it does!
 
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