What do you think???

[ThePainfulTruth]

I am often hit on by people 5-10 plus years younger than I am. What should I gather from this? I was in a relationship for years and sort of lived in a vacuum. Upon coming out of the fog I had a bit of an identitiy crisis when I started to notice this. I really am not sure of what to think. Is this some new trend? I feel clueless. I am on a singles website and I conducted an experiment. I posted my age the first time I set up my page. I got younger people and people my age responding. I later closed my page and a few weeks later created another page without posting my age. I was amazed that out of all the responses I got only one was someone in my age range. Everyone else was about 10 plus years younger!!!???? Go figure. I dress my age and carry myself super mature. People call me an "old soul," or really "mature." I am just confused and have been pondering this for the past 3 years that I've been single. Until I can figure out what to make of this I've suspended all dating period because I admit that I am confused. This may seem like an overreaction but I am a student these days and don't have the time any way...so not dating is really no big deal. Tell me what you make of it?

 

[omizzi]

First, if you don't date or try to soon, you'll still be in a vacuum. Second, what do you want? you want someone your age or older or what? To get what you want, go out there and do something don't stay in the vacuum. Third, how is it that you dress? Do you tuck in your shirt? Do you wear tight pants? You need to describe how you dress and your age. If you seventeen, it's OK to wear baggy jeans and loose shirt but if you're twenty something it's time to try something more formal or casual and it also depends on your style. Ask a friend (girl) to help you go shopping for new clothes. Get her opinion of new styles for you. Maybe flirt with her as well.

 

[AverageFC]

younger women like older men. This has been true forever.

 

[ThePainfulTruth]

My older sister has the same problem

She is 35 and she is hit on a lot by younger guys. I don't really think younger guys are that into older women...I don't know what to tell her...
None of my boys are really into older chicks

What ya'll think?


Ya'lls input is helping. I feel like a country bumpkin.




Signed,
Painful