"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, I am back in the dating seen although things are still winding down with my ex wife. I have taken out a woman I am attracted to 3 times. I started teasing some about sex. Just a little subtle suggestions and she responded, I think it is a little early, dont you? I am very ok with taking it slow. I just wanted to not be a "nice guy" to much either. How should I respond to here question? thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How is it too early?

Waiting to have sex doesn't make the relationship better. It doesn't make you better. It doesn't make the girl more virtuous.

There are no rules.
 
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Maybe she wants our relationship to grow on a deeper level before. I can respect that, if it is the case. She has shown interest in me quite a bit.
 
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when there is sexual chemistry all BS goes out the window.

does she pays her half whe you take her out?. you become a fool when you keep paying for dates that dont lead to sex. remember you are a man dont let her dictate the frame . if she doesnt put out in the next date its time to look yourself in the mirror and recognize there isnt chemistry.
 
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Tiguere said:
when there is sexual chemistry all BS goes out the window.

does she pays her half whe you take her out?. you become a fool when you keep paying for dates that dont lead to sex. remember you are a man dont let her dictate the frame . if she doesnt put out in the next date its time to look yourself in the mirror and recognize there isnt chemistry.
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Well said. If you are not getting it on by the third date you risk becoming her non sexual beta male provider while shes getting plowed by some Alpha jerk.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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