"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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xdreamz said:
sounds to me like she wanted some free time with her girl friends to go out and it made you kind of bothered...its alright she probably means a lot to you. from my experience when you start getting bothered by where she's going and stuff it causes some problems because it communicates weakness. so just learn from your mistakes and be clear
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Girlfriends??
If it was just girls there wouldnt be a problem,but it was nothing but guys that she was hanging around with and I know a lot of guys like her. Not to sound insecure or anything/ Im just saying I got tired of all the BS and drama that she kept creating for me.
 
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You did the right thing. I takes a lot to walk away from a relationship, but it's better sooner than later. You're only 20 years old, go have fun with yourself, you can't take relationships so seriously in this stage of your life. You get a lot of respect from me. Just don't let her coerce you into getting back together, if you let her back in again you're just going to lose more of her respect. It tells her that you're controllable and she has the upper hand and always will. Just look at the bright side, you can bang different girls now! Live on!
 
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SickAgain said:
You did the right thing. I takes a lot to walk away from a relationship, but it's better sooner than later. You're only 20 years old, go have fun with yourself, you can't take relationships so seriously in this stage of your life. You get a lot of respect from me. Just don't let her coerce you into getting back together, if you let her back in again you're just going to lose more of her respect. It tells her that you're controllable and she has the upper hand and always will. Just look at the bright side, you can bang different girls now! Live on!
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Yeah man you're exactly right. She just left the flowers and the other gift I got her outside of my door with a door that said something along the lines of " You really hurt me and you dont think that I care about you. Not much I can do since you changed ur number. Take Care"
I just took the 24 roses and vase and thru them in the dumpster.
Right from the beginning I new things werent gonna work though I made the mistake of getting in deeper with her and now it'll take some time to get over her which really sucks.
The thing Ive learned the most out of this whole situation is no matter how hard it may be you HAVE TO KNOW WHEN TO WALK AWAY.
 
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Do you see how when you sent her flowers and gifts she disrespected you and when you ignored her, she wanted you back? Do you think there is a lesson here?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yea i had a girlfriend like that before. out of the blue she wanted to break up and when i called her she kept on making it seem like the relationship was over. only when i ignored her she started calling me back. it was when i was seeing another girl she started gave me all these flowers, food, gifts and oh yea.. a framed poem. haha
 
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xdreamz said:
yea i had a girlfriend like that before. out of the blue she wanted to break up and when i called her she kept on making it seem like the relationship was over. only when i ignored her she started calling me back. it was when i was seeing another girl she started gave me all these flowers, food, gifts and oh yea.. a framed poem. haha
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Wow women are insane.
 
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