"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do YOU think works better when approaching an attractive woman?

Based on your experience, which approach do you find more successful?

  • Direct approach during the day. Going in with a purpose & getting it done.

    Votes: 6 60.0%

  • Indirect approach during the day. Going after a purpose, but not straight to the goal.

    Votes: 4 40.0%
  • Total voters
    10
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When you see that tight body and beauty put together sometimes you are unsure of how to approach. You start getting "butterflies in your stomach" like in the good old days & you start thinking on how you can approach.

As DJ's, most of us approach instantly & come up with a topic. However, what's the best way to do it?

Give examples of what has worked for you and what hasn't so that fellow DJ's can learn from your personal insight!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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depends on the situation but when in doubt, go direct.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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