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What do you think was wrong with this PUA's pickup attempt?

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I do like you. A lot of guys are younger than me. They got the vigor. Nowhere near the game but A for effort. The old rsdnation forums and inner circle was useful. Solo vaca or even a business trip or road trip. You can link up with wings globally. Lots of weird people. Not too different from tinder. Met one fella off the old mystery forums. I picked up in a club. The wing threw toilet paper at her and she freaked the **** out. Slapped the **** out of him. I pulled and dude raged. He said i blocked him and it wasn't cool.

The last experience from a lair or wing from a forum. School boy error.

We're in a similar place of mind. Most childhood friends are married. ****, the best playboy i knew on London has two kids and he still is swinging the hammer. The lad is a OG. 7day vaca and he will berate everyone after pulling a dozen on the week. This cheeky **** once showed up to the lobby bar with two airport vans full of girls. He was wearing sunglasses and a wwf wrestling belt. He had 7min in the club and he ****ed off with a stunner. The running joke was he pulled a off duty escort because of her location and residency.

Some of the best playboys i knew never learned pickup or game. This dude was short, ethnic, party boy, and could sell sand in a dessert.
I never went to a lair.

If you want to survive or better yet thrive as an unemcumbered man, you've got to pace yourself with the lifestyle. Pre-COVID, going to bars/nightclubs multiple nights a week only works if you have a job that doesn't require you to function before 12 PM. The best nights for pickup in bars were nights other than Fri/Sat nights. It is difficult to be out hustling on Wednesday night into early Thursday from 11 pm until 1:30 am or so when you have to be functional at work by 8 or 9 AM. That's why I became day game centric.

I've seen solid players burn out and do things that they shouldn't do. I've seen men give up the unencumbered life for an ill fitting marriage and house in the suburbs. Not good.

I like being an unencumbered guy. I like being a renter and I like not having children. I have my freedom and the possibility to mold my life from right now forward in any way I see fit.

I did like that this Brazilian guy tried to pick up women in the mall, which has been a standard day game venue.
 

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I never went to a lair.

If you want to survive or better yet thrive as an unemcumbered man, you've got to pace yourself with the lifestyle. Pre-COVID, going to bars/nightclubs multiple nights a week only works if you have a job that doesn't require you to function before 12 PM. The best nights for pickup in bars were nights other than Fri/Sat nights. It is difficult to be out hustling on Wednesday night into early Thursday from 11 pm until 1:30 am or so when you have to be functional at work by 8 or 9 AM. That's why I became day game centric.
The alternative is doxed as well. People trying to ruin the life you built so i highly advise you Vet hard before letting people in your life. Women especially.

At 17, fake ID, I was club hopping. 7 nights a week days are over for me. I can cover a all nighters in 45min. The only fallout is the 45min turns late when you pull.

Personally, halloween is the best. I found nye is overrated. Good but not as great. Yrs, many bars try to have a week day geared at college students. Its expensive and pricey but a lesson worth young blood conquering. Adapt, understand logistics, and even how not to **** your pull up. For example, the sec you pull her out of the club or bar, straight line to your car or uber. A billion things can and will **** your set up. Her friend, ex bf, a **** block bouncer, and so on. I cannot stress the importance of urgency. As if a terrorist with a bomb strapped to their chest. Hand. Door. Gone!

I've seen solid players burn out and do things that they shouldn't do. I've seen men give up the unencumbered life for an ill fitting marriage and house in the suburbs. Not good.
The red pill lulz! I think it's fine to utilise pickup, Jordan Peterson or red pill. At the same time, dudes need to lose the training wheels and live. Care to be specific for burn out? I saw many obsessed on rsdnation and game to the point life went down hill.

I like being an unencumbered guy. I like being a renter and I like not having children. I have my freedom and the possibility to mold my life from right now forward in any way I see fit.
Bachelor mode ftw.

I highly advise you that it's in your better interest to buy. Even a small condo or something like. Check David Ramsey. He is a blue pill and a simp but a black belt in money, no debt, and savings. The framework is solid. The biggest expenses for the bachelor is living. Rent and the property accumulate value. You can get by on a room like a college kid. Good luck pulling there.

I did like that this Brazilian guy tried to pick up women in the mall, which has been a standard day game venue.
After julien gate, there waa warnings across the globe to security. Inviting a girl to coffee is deemed rapey.
 

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"I want to meet one of you".. Might as well say "I am so desperate will one of you PLEASE like me PLEASE PLEASE. Here are some flowers for whoever wants me".
 
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