"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you think the idea of a "sexy handmaiden" outfit represents?

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I was reading this femynist's article about a retailer that sells lingerie & sexy costumes coming out with a handmaiden outfit (i.e., as in "The Handmaid's Tale"), and it got me interested:

https://jezebel.com/i-dont-know-how-to-feel-about-this-sexy-handmaiden-cost-1829204492

my opinion: A woman who would wear this is obviously saying to men "I will be a sex slave to my man". I find this quite erotic, more than lingerie or even a buck-naked gal. I'm even popping a woody just writing about it. o_O I should also say that I saw the original movie starring Natasha Richardson, and definitely enjoyed watching her master Robert Duvall doing the deed. I think it must be the idea of full sexual power that I find so exciting.

EDIT: The femynists have already made the retailer remove the item:

https://www.yandy.com/Yandy-Brave-Red-Maiden-Costume.php

:mad::mad:
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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