"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you think she's up to?

vagrant

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She's 18...damn!...simply an HB9...I wish I can post one of her pix but everyone has access online...So yeah, I already made a topic about her but I just can't find it anymore. Anyways, she has a boyfriend of 3 years but he's in the navy. She asked for my number and she asked for my yahoo, myspace, and friendster on a different day. She gives me ride, we eat, she calls me for things she already knows and would reply on my instant messages in seconds even though she has her status on "away". She'd grab my shoulders with two hands when I say something funny and she looks awkward when I sometimes look her in the eye. She shows a lot of signs that she does like me and all but there are days when she brings up her boyfriend in the class like, "my boyfriend wanted me to live with him and I was like I'm still too young", my boyfriend this and that!...see I'm having trouble cuz she's an HB9 EASILY...I mean the chick in class that you just stare at all day and think about crazy stuff you know...and I'm having trouble cuz I got a girl in another state who LOVES me like CRAZY and this chick right now is driving me crazy. I don't know if she just wants to be friends or what. I wanna make my move but I'm not even sure cuz of what if and all that sh*t!...ugh!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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and if I do make my move my girlfriend wouldn't like it and it'll surely hurt our relationship whether I let her know or not. I'm only 20 yrs old. Why do i feel like I'm getting married any day now? is 20 really that young or old?
 

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Sounds like she wants you.

Just get her isolated with you and make your move.

If it works though you both should drop your LDR's immediately so as to cease being cheating scum and let those other two know where they stand with you both.

As for marriage you are a bit young to even consider it.

Scroll down and have a read of Rollo Tomassi's post in this thread to understand why.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=123239&page=2&highlight=Rollo+Tomassi+marriage
 

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Wow, nice read. Thanks for sharing that with me KnotrollerX. Now I understand why there are so many people breaking up today. It's because people grow and learn and achieve things and these people tend to think that they are better than their partners and they can get someone better. So, it is BEST to stay non-exclusive with a girl until you reach your true potential at about age 28 or 30 or so and find a girl that you think is worth your time that you will be spending the rest of your life with. Now, I feel bad for making my girl fall for me HARD cuz any minute I might just find someone better and then break her heart. I wish I knew this from the beginning. It's time to let her know while it's not too late!~
 
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