what do you think of....

[Cassanova_Child]

approaching random girls about your age at bookstores, coffee shops, movie theaters, sports places, stores etc......

i know that for adult women this works because they expect you to do things like this kind of, they dont really have any other way too meet people except for work and school. but in HS you're expected to hang out with your people in your school.

what are your thoughts? im thinking it would work as long as you come in quickly, establish a memorable, funny presence, and slide out quickly.

 

[BlakeW5]

Of course it can work. Attracting girls isn't as hard as everyone on here makes it out to be. You just have to try. Girls aren't as different from guys as everyone likes to think.

The fact is, when good-looking girls go out in public they expect to be hit on. They're used to it. It's better to show them you're attracted than to do nothing then go home and wonder how the situation COULD have played out (all while you're jacking off LOL)

 

[jeffthechef]

think none of my friends know about this site...and when i brought up the idea..they all thought it was weird..they kept saying, "dude, there's a system..you can only go out with people at school that are in your popularity range." they also tell me that my expectations are high..i say **** the system...**** trying to be popular so you think you're good enough to go out with a girl...do what you want..just dont creep her out by doing something overtly sexual

 

[Cassanova_Child]

i agree with you jeff, although none of my friends have ever explicitly talked about the 'system', they all live as if its there.... and i'm thinking wtf? And i honestly dont give a rats **** about popularity, i have about 15-20 people in my grade that i talk to, and 5 in others, and i couldnt care less about being invited to the next party, etc.... but anyway, im gonna start looking outside of school, cuz i've either ****ed up or been with the few taht i would bother with.