"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some chit he says is very stupid...but his attitude and how he interacts with people is pretty cool and reminds me of my younger days running around doing PUA stuff and going through the DJ bible just trying to talk to everyone. It was refreshing to see because everyone is so closed off these days, someone going completely against the grain is good to see and motivating and makes me want to have more fun lighthearted interactions with people and live life more socially adventurous. what do you think?


i admire the idgaf carefree actions...even tho some of it is cringeworthy. apparently the guys a vet and has been deployed so if this is his way of coping with chit and just spreading positivity i cant hate on it regardless. this is a good way for those of you who are socially awkward to maybe get a kickstart and realize that its not that serious
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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El Payaso

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Staged.
 

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You really think so huh? Well if I wanted to convince you i'd say check out his vids, hundreds of random interactions. I dont agree with your "staged." response.
 
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