"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spider_007

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i hate to admit it but it's true. It's something about a womans inocence and "sweetness" that brings any man to his knees. Good looking or not.

It's funny when you go to clubs and see those "party chicks" that think that they are "ALL THAT", but honestley, great deal of guys would not consider a serous relationship with them. The onece that do eather don't have a whole lot of experience with women, or they are party animals them selfs
 

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Hahaha, sample size of 9!? Statistically this survey means nothing, and therefore my vote is "garbage." No conclusions whatsoever can be drawn from such a small number of responses.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Qualtran
Hahaha, sample size of 9!? Statistically this survey means nothing, ...
I agree.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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while it is a small number I myself can relate to 90% of answers. The answers did not surprise me at all. Except for a few. If she had sex b4 marriage with another man, not a big deal. If she was a slut......thats a big deal. Its not so much her having 10 guys *** inside her that would bother me (one night stands), its the fact that she is risking getting a VD with a total stranger and does not respect herself enough to hold back on her desires. I'd love to do lots of one night stands, but i dont for the simple fact taht i dont want a VD. Its not worth it and its nasty. Plus you dont even know if they clean themselves down there. For all you know they could have had a shower a week ago.
 

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Fenderules - I can relate to that, one time I ****ed this girl... then about 30 min after she left another girl came over and gave me a bj... I almost felt like asking if it tasted good or something to that effect.


*don't bypass the swear filter
 
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LOL what's that for??? I know somebody who has a very big one... but only use it with his hands lol.
 

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I expect they sampled from the same social group, i.e. cool or uncool.

Personally after having sex with my girlfriend I felt more connected. Frankly, like I owe something. But I know this is rare.
 
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