"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What do you think of this survey?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
i hate to admit it but it's true. It's something about a womans inocence and "sweetness" that brings any man to his knees. Good looking or not.
It's funny when you go to clubs and see those "party chicks" that think that they are "ALL THAT", but honestley, great deal of guys would not consider a serous relationship with them. The onece that do eather don't have a whole lot of experience with women, or they are party animals them selfs
It's funny when you go to clubs and see those "party chicks" that think that they are "ALL THAT", but honestley, great deal of guys would not consider a serous relationship with them. The onece that do eather don't have a whole lot of experience with women, or they are party animals them selfs
Muppet
Don Juan
hehe from my home town!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I agree.Originally posted by Qualtran
Hahaha, sample size of 9!? Statistically this survey means nothing, ...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
while it is a small number I myself can relate to 90% of answers. The answers did not surprise me at all. Except for a few. If she had sex b4 marriage with another man, not a big deal. If she was a slut......thats a big deal. Its not so much her having 10 guys *** inside her that would bother me (one night stands), its the fact that she is risking getting a VD with a total stranger and does not respect herself enough to hold back on her desires. I'd love to do lots of one night stands, but i dont for the simple fact taht i dont want a VD. Its not worth it and its nasty. Plus you dont even know if they clean themselves down there. For all you know they could have had a shower a week ago.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Fenderules - I can relate to that, one time I ****ed this girl... then about 30 min after she left another girl came over and gave me a bj... I almost felt like asking if it tasted good or something to that effect.
*don't bypass the swear filter
*don't bypass the swear filter
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