For those of you that are into fashion, im a bigger guy so how would the v-neck look on me?
http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=26282&pid=560150
http://www.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=26282&pid=560150
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
eh u asked about how the v-neck would look on you if you got much fat the v-neck will look ugly.. anyways the shirt isnt nice u shouldnt buy it IMOHandyAndy said:Well thats taking time right now, Im asking about the shirt, my body is slowly changing now, the shirt isnt going to change
That rib cage with something clever for a heart has been done for a minute just like the fight gear t shirt thing. Definatly passable and definately stylish. I'd prefer to wear something along the lines of thisKen785 said:How about this shirt...
http://shop.dangerusskandulus.com/product_info.php?cPath=1_10&products_id=8
...and guess what?? It glows in the dark! I think that would be pretty 'peacocky' for all you PUAs out there in the club...personally i wouldnt wear it myself though.
Agreed. Fight gear is great. Ive got a couple Punishment Athetics T shirts and skullcaps too. But I bouight those before MMA went mainstream. I think now that its mainstream, everyone is wearing them now and it gets old.PRMoon said:That rib cage with something clever for a heart has been done for a minute just like the fight gear t shirt thing. Definatly passable and definately stylish. I'd prefer to wear something along the lines of this
http://www.hybridpaintball.biz/proddetail.php?prod=08Aceofspades
but i prefer fight gear to almost any other t shirts. The print on them is far more impressive then what you see on the average t-shirt.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.