Josh Davidson
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Start the first date with a hug.
What should I say before the hug?
What should I say before the hug?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What do you think of this idea to break the touch barrier on a first date?:
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
FlexpertHamilton
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I pretty much always do that, even if its just a half hearted one armed hug.
Try touching their arms for emphasis, or leg if you're feeling particularly.
Try touching their arms for emphasis, or leg if you're feeling particularly.
SargeMaximus
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Yeah always hug when you first meet. You can let your hand linger on the small of her back as you slowly part too for added tension but don’t be creepy or needy with your touch
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It would be weird not to hug her when you meet, what else do guys do? Shake hands with the girl or just awkwardly stand there?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
AureliusMaximus
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That is not a "barrier to break"; that's standard default social interaction (with girls), so there is nothing special about it...
Always give a big hug upon first meeting. If she acts stiff she isn't in to you or is very shy.
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....^^^^ agreed with the above....
Let her wonder why im not doing the typical hug.
Sometimes i just came from a date and dont want her to smell the other girl
Let her wonder why im not doing the typical hug.
Sometimes i just came from a date and dont want her to smell the other girl