What do you think of this? About forgiving infidelity

[Last Man Standing]

Men do NOT forgive "infidelity" - this is THE GREATEST disrespect and betrayal to a man!!!!!

 

[KarmaSutra]

I'll rephrase this again:

When a girl is in a relationship with one man, and another man comes along and has sex with her, he will be considered a DJ by many guys on this site.

All I'm saying. It was an observation. You're right that no one can make anyone do anything they don't want to do. Maybe I wasn't clear earlier.

My overall point being, theres a lot of talk about hors. Yet there are guys who complain about how hors are unloyal, etc. etc., yet will give all their friends high-fives if they managed to sleep with a girl in a relationship.

It takes two people to cheat, yes? So, if one girl is a hor and cheats, then the so-called DJ who co-cheated is not much better than her, but there isn't a word for a man-hor.

There. That was my point.

Thanks again.

Now you make sense. There is a complete double standard with men and women. If a man cheats it's biological, his "nature". If a woman cheats she's an opportunist and "hor". Unfortunately most people haven't evolved enough to see past the deluge of self pity which they welcome with open arms. They come running towards anyone with an ear or speaker to throw thier arms around and cry "poor me, the b!tch she cheated on me" or "That bastard just fvcked my best friend." Whine, B!tch, Complain. People cheat for one reason and one reason alone:

Attention.

They're getting a physical but more importantly, an emotional payoff by allowing that short term gratification to weasel it's way in. But this is a lesson EVERYONE needs to learn. And it better hurt more than a bullet so that it sears itself into your collective unconscience so you never forget it.

 

[The_Reaper]

Now you make sense. There is a complete double standard with men and women. If a man cheats it's biological, his "nature". If a woman cheats she's an opportunist and "hor". Unfortunately most people haven't evolved enough to see past the deluge of self pity which they welcome with open arms. They come running towards anyone with an ear or speaker to throw thier arms around and cry "poor me, the b!tch she cheated on me" or "That bastard just fvcked my best friend." Whine, B!tch, Complain. People cheat for one reason and one reason alone:

Attention.

They're getting a physical but more importantly, an emotional payoff by allowing that short term gratification to weasel it's way in. But this is a lesson EVERYONE needs to learn. And it better hurt more than a bullet so that it sears itself into your collective unconscience so you never forget it.

What "lesson" are you taking about? Stating that people cheat for attention is not really a didactic lesson. Attention hors love the attention of other people attracted to them, but knowledge of this fact does not ease the sense of betrayal at their cheating.

Are you suggesting that this craving for attention is a product of a weak, low quality, low-integrity mind - and good riddance to them? Or that the cheated person did not do enough to supply this attention in the first place?

 

[KarmaSutra]

What "lesson" are you taking about? Stating that people cheat for attention is not really a didactic lesson. Attention hors love the attention of other people attracted to them, but knowledge of this fact does not ease the sense of betrayal at their cheating.

Are you suggesting that this craving for attention is a product of a weak, low quality, low-integrity mind - and good riddance to them? Or that the cheated person did not do enough to supply this attention in the first place?

Christ. Read it again.

Slowly this time . . .

 

[STR8UP]

I remember my first real g/f confessing to me that she cheated on me (only after I had heard it from other ppl, mind you) and staying with her despite the fact.

First and LAST time that ever happened.

Now if you will excuse me, I think I'm gonna be sick..... It's nauseating to even think about it to this day.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

forget taking them back emotionally, suppose you pipe raw and she got a std from some dude she is creepin with on the side.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Another article from the Feminist/Hor/Homo perverts trying to influence opinion to their liking!! You can see all this propaganda Matrix shyt everyday everywhere!!

This is war fellows - an information war - a war for your mind!!! Disregard this perverted thinking!!

 

[The Librarian]

I forgave my last LTR, but that was a huge mistake and one that I won't be making again. We were together for a year after she cheated, and her actions destroyed my trust in her and the fact that I seemed to dismiss it so easily made her lose respect for me.

From now on, if I find myself in this situation, I'm going to be asking myself this question: Why am I willing to forgive her? If the reason is that I honestly believe this was a one-time occurance and that she's genuinely sorry, then yes, I'll forgive her. If I'm willing to forgive her because the alternative is losing her, then no, I shouldn't forgive her. I shouldn't even be with her, since the relationship is clearly in a bad place.

 

[dietzcoi]

LMS - the end is near when more and more AFCs start thinking like this...

Prepare for the fall...

Dietzcoi

 

[comic_relief]

LMS - the end is near when more and more AFCs start thinking like this...

Prepare for the fall...

Dietzcoi

agreed,

sorry boys, my girlfriend cheats on me then it is over. If I cheat on my girlfriend, I fully expect to be tossed out on my @$$ or I will break it off myself no matter how much it will hurt her. I believe that once you cheat, the relationship is most likely ruined for good. That whole trust issue thing is pretty much ruined.

I cannot believe that someone would actually write this drivel. I wonder if the author actually even believes this bullsh!t.

comic_relief

 

[Willis]

i cant really 4 give cheatin,
i she cheats, im gone, cause appearently she dont need me anymore.

 

[BlackJackal]

Pretty much a done deal if my girl cheats on me. The relationships a wrap, it over. Then again it's the main reason I dont even bother with relationships...lol.