What do you think of porn?

[Soflobro#2]

https://www.yourbrainonporn.com

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What happens when you drop a male rat into a cage with a receptive female rat? First, you see a frenzy of copulation. Then, progressively, the male tires of that particular female. Even if she wants more, he has had enough. However, replace the original female with a fresh one, and the male immediately revives and gallantly struggles to fertilize her. You can repeat this process with fresh females until he is completely wiped out.

This is called the Coolidge effect—the automatic response to novel mates. Interestingly, men ejaculate more motile sperm and they do it more quickly when they view a novel porn star. This powerful automatic response to erotic novelty is what started you down the road to getting hooked on internet porn.

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When i was younger I got hooked on porn and was a loner. Not good.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I've been a serial masturbator in my teens, needless to say I didnt even feel attraction toward my classmates, no drive to succeed and so on.

Right now I dont fap that much, surely less than the average guy and while my libido is not as high as everyone, I have a huge drive to success and achievement.

Wheter its at the gym or in the professional field I hit the field as if I was on the battle ground looking for looting.

I guess the effect of excessive masturbation and porn goes way above simple sex drive related problems, it sucks your overall drive.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Porn is the scourge of our age. It is rampant and fuels addiction. I'd say 9/10s of the problems between the sexes are due to the normalization of porn use.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Porn is the scourge of our age. It is rampant and fuels addiction. I'd say 9/10s of the problems between the sexes are due to the normalization of porn use.

Porn are to men what social networks are to women, they give a faster and more addicting substitute to our natural needs.

 

[wifehunter]

The proliferation of pornography is a response to feminism and a scarcity of quality, well behaved females.

I imagine, porn would not be an issue, if our society wasn't already fukked.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Women don’t make themselves look as hot as they do there and they don’t know how to do the extremely hot sexual things they do there as much either like arching their back, looking up at you right in your eyes while sucking your ****, smiling/grinning, maybe even spreading her cheeks lol. And it’s just kinda awkward in general.

But that is one thing that makes porn ‘unrealistic’. People say how it’s super unrealistic too. But the one thing that posses me tf off is that whenever they talk about best, hottest, wildest sex they’ve had, it ALWAYS sounds like a porno. It’s like, EVERYONE wants to have sex with pornstars, even chicks and they want to be ****ed like one too. But they just don’t for whatever reason. ****s annoying to hear because people don’t know what they’re talking about.

To be fair, I doubt most men know what the **** they’re doing either so there’s also that. But chicks are more socially apt than guys so they need to do those subtleties I mentioned above to open up the guys too, the ones who don’t know wtf they’re doing. And they don’t really seem to know how to dirty talk too lol. That can definitely be

Also, it can condition you to like certain things that you otherwise normally wouldn’t like trannies or cougars lol so be careful with that

 

[Macaframalama]

Women don’t make themselves look as hot as they do there and they don’t know how to do the extremely hot sexual things they do there as much either like arching their back, looking up at you right in your eyes while sucking your ****, smiling/grinning, maybe even spreading her cheeks lol. And it’s just kinda awkward in general.

I like breaking them in and having to instruct them to do these things. It's like a complete act of submission every time they complete an act to your liking. They don't forget the men that have no problem doing it easily either. Its all part of the job description.

 

[Billtx49]

I think it could be an educational asset if a man is young, lacking experience, and he doesn’t get sucked in too far. For instance, you always thought you might like eating snatch but had no experience in pleasing a woman orally.
Watching some lesbian porn might be a benefit to you…

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

The proliferation of pornography is a response to feminism and a scarcity of quality, well behaved females.

I imagine, porn would not be an issue, if our society wasn't already fukked.

A mutually reinforcing downward spiral. Dissatisfaction with the world... retreat into the private 'pleasure palace'. Leading to further dissatisfaction... ad nauseum.

 

[BeExcellent]

A mutually reinforcing downward spiral. Dissatisfaction with the world... retreat into the private 'pleasure palace'. Leading to further dissatisfaction... ad nauseum.

^^^^Exactly.

Porn is fantasy. It's the male equivalent to romance novels where Prince Charming saves the damsel and they live happily ever after (complete Disney fantasy)...only it's images of sexual acts that are impersonal to the viewer, impersonal to the actors in the scene and is a fantasy of what "great sex" is supposed to be...

But at the end of the day it is not a human connection, it meets no emotional need for a man, and at the same time it creates both unrealistic expectations in the man and disappointment if the man interacts with a real female who doesn't have the optimal camera angle, the optimal lighting and the hooker/porn star/w h o r e background worth of sexual experience.

Porn is about objects on a screen not human interaction. And so it can't meet any needs other than the voyeristic and the banal pursuit of pleasure. And this is not fulfilling over time.

But men can get a conditioned response, just like Pavolv's dogs. And that is what creates the problems. Like a rat crazily pushing the lever for the treat men get conditioned to the pleasure reward and can become completely dissociated with normalcy in human relations. And from there you can get depression, isolation, loss of drive, etc.

It can boil down to basic conditioned response for a pleasure stimulus, with all the bad outcomes that conjoin.

 

[wifehunter]

A mutually reinforcing downward spiral. Dissatisfaction with the world... retreat into the private 'pleasure palace'. Leading to further dissatisfaction... ad nauseum.

Yep, sh!t needs to hit rock bottom before we can make any progress.

But, I think our money needs to change first. Value needs to be protected not leached upon by governing authorities.

After that, we can talk.

 

[speed dawg]

I've heard people say that porn saved their marriage. Not sure about all that, I guess it can be instructional, haha.

I quit watching porn altogether, which is hard because it's free on everyone's phone. So, so easy. I think the biggest problem with porn is that it's a comfort zone. It doesn't force you to get out do things on your own. Best way to learn how to have sex is to have sex, not to spank it to porn. Even if you suck at it. At the end of the day, who cares? Any woman that's into you isn't going to care unless you get all weirded out.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I watch it too much, for me it's a convenience thing. I'm not one of these messed up guys that watches it for hours at a time and can't get off without it, but at present it's a few minutes every day to every other day for me and that still feels like way too much to me.

Unfortunately I have the brutal combination of high sex drive, no LTR GF and a job so busy I can't even date at the moment. The golden triangle of sexual frustration.

I've cut it out completely for 3 weeks at a time, but end up going back to it out of boredom and lust. Jeez, now that I'm typing this it does sound like I'm an addict or something.

The most disturbing thing is that it seems to be getting more and more extreme - and it slowly influences your tastes. I've noticed I've been watching quite a few B*DSM style videos lately when previously that never really interested me. It's mostly rough sex with some tying up, sometimes kinda rough b*js which sometimes I feel bad about watching because I don't think any girl would enjoy it a whole lot. But I have a really clear natural red line when it comes to anything more extreme than that, thankfully.

I've seen bits of videos that have made me feel genuinely repulsed on totally mainstream sites. Dudes literally belting chicks round the face in the middle of sex, or deliberately distorting their faces into horrible unnatural shapes with their hands. Guys shouting at and spitting on girls...enough to make me feel nauseous. I have no idea how there's such an apparently large market for that.

It's quite unnerving to me that there are people out there who not only like that level of sheer violence in their pornography but probably can ONLY get aroused by that too.

I actually read recently that when analysed, it is often demographics of women who like the REALLY insane, violent stuff. Which is bizarre, I guess it's like a self-loathing thing for low self esteem?

 

[Reykhel]

Porn is for wankers.

It will pollute your mind and leads to homosexuality and impotence. Your conditioning your mind to normalize seeing
hard ****s.

Hugh Hefner died and there was a thread about him here. Men idolizing him. Google Hefner and homosexuality. He banged gays
and then later in life while he was having threesomes with two female models he couldn't get hard without viagra and he couldn't ejaculate without
watching gay porn while fvcking the two female models.

Can you imagine a King sitting in his room in the dark with his trousers down his ankles looking at porn on his smartphone and chugging furiously on his king penis.

Not for a healthy mind.

Porn is just another tool to make a generation of weak men.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

It will pollute your mind and leads to homosexuality and impotence. Your conditioning your mind to normalize seeing hard ****s.

Hugh Hefner died and there was a thread about him here. Men idolizing him. Google Hefner and homosexuality. He banged gays
and then later in life while he was having threesomes with two female models he couldn't get hard without viagra and he couldn't ejaculate without watching gay porn while fvcking the two female models.

Lol, I don't know about homosexuality...that's like saying looking at your own er*ction will make you homosexual...but impotence for sure.

I found people's adoration of Hefner absolutely bizarre. The guy was a sleazy old pr*ck who treated his models like utter garbage. He didn't even pay Marilyn Monroe the money she was owed for her nudes even though it kickstarted his whole publishing career.

Supremely ironic that scum like Weinstein were getting nailed at the same time that Hefner, who was a piece of s**t trading sex for fame on an even bigger scale, was being idolised by the very same media outlets.

 

[Reykhel]

that's like saying looking at your own er*ction will make you homosexual.

No it's the not the same thing at all. One is part of your own body, the others are other men's erect manhoods which you are looking at
and absorbing into your mind while your in a highly sexual state.

This becomes the norm.

Don't think this is a problem? Look at the amount of men on the down low. A particularly potent problem in the black community where married men are sneaking around fvcking other men in a bizzare mindset they don't use protection believing protection somehow makes the "sex" "real", they inevitabley catch AIDS and then bring that ****e home to their clueless wives.

Why would a healthy hetrosexual male be thinking about homosexual sex?

Where and when was the virus planted in his mind? how did it grow?

 

[zekko]

Dudes literally belting chicks round the face in the middle of sex

I'm against hitting women, but I do remember one girl telling me that what turned her on was she wanted a guy to beat the sh!t out of her.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

No it's the not the same thing at all. One is part of your own body, the others are other men's erect manhoods which you are looking at
and absorbing into your mind while your in a highly sexual state.

This becomes the norm.

Don't think this is a problem? Look at the amount of men on the down low. A particularly potent problem in the black community where married men are sneaking around fvcking other men in a bizzare mindset they don't use protection believing protection somehow makes the "sex" "real", they inevitabley catch AIDS and then bring that ****e home to their clueless wives.

Why would a healthy hetrosexual male be thinking about homosexual sex?

Where and when was the virus planted in his mind? how did it grow?

Lolwut, is that married men thing real? You got a source for that? It sounds utterly weird to me.

If I'm honest, I'm not entirely sure how sexual preferences work - I think as much as modern hipsters like to tout that it's a spectrum, 99% of your preferences are ingrained at birth if not 100%.

I could never find another man attractive. That's just not possible, I don't feel like that at all.

But at the same time, it does seem that people who lead sex-laden hedonistic lifestyles almost always seem to be bisexual with their activity. I'm not sure if that's because the bisexuality kicks off their willingness to have lots of sex with everyone regardless of gender or because they slowly "become" bisexual due to their increasing sexual appetite.

(Note I'm not saying all bisexual people are sex maniacs. I'm just saying that many celebs and the like who have crazy sex lives seem to display omnisexual tendencies).

Interesting points and theories, though. I will have to see what the scientific evidence suggests.

I'm against hitting women, but I do remember one girl telling me that what turned her on was she wanted a guy to beat the sh!t out of her.

I can understand slapping a chick's butt or even pinching bits of her. But I totally draw the line at slapping or punching her face, that's just insane to me.

 

[Reykhel]

Lolwut, is that married men thing real? You got a source for that? It sounds utterly weird to me.

This degenerate wrote a book about:
https://www.amazon.com/Down-Low-Journey-Lives-Straight/dp/076791399X

 

[speed dawg]

No it's the not the same thing at all. One is part of your own body, the others are other men's erect manhoods which you are looking at
and absorbing into your mind while your in a highly sexual state.

This becomes the norm.

Don't think this is a problem? Look at the amount of men on the down low. A particularly potent problem in the black community where married men are sneaking around fvcking other men in a bizzare mindset they don't use protection believing protection somehow makes the "sex" "real", they inevitabley catch AIDS and then bring that ****e home to their clueless wives.

Why would a healthy hetrosexual male be thinking about homosexual sex?

Where and when was the virus planted in his mind? how did it grow?

hahahahahaha WTF???