She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
As a plate, fine, but that's all. You also might want to ask for a clean bill of health because you know she's been on the CC. Another concern is potential drug use. You don't want to get hep C.Is it a turn on or turn off or just whatever?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tough love, Neil. Those girls should`ve been given huge warning signs before entering public. My first girlfriend that broke my heart at that same time had her **** pierced and her tongue before that. I remember thinking, why would anyone pierce their genitals? Thinking about it now, that ethnic tattoo artist she had on fakebook was most likely someone she fuked and introduced her to that stuff. The c0ck carousel is actually more infinite than the universeI dated a girl with lots of tattoos and piercings in 2015, age 20-21. She was the last girl to tear my heart out and stomp on it and laugh. Knock on wood.
She was an angel for 6 months, then, while laying naked in my bed, 4 hours before my flight left Tulsa for Atlanta, she went Schizo on me. She said "What makes you think I ever liked you?" to which I replied "Well, you are naked in my bed at the moment...".
But I got up and I said "When a girl tells me she is not attracted to me, I believe her" and I opened the door and held it for her as she got dressed and left. I still walked her to her car because it was 1am. Never said another word to her or saw her again.
It's just whatever. I have noticed that the ones who have it are all thots though.Is it a turn on or turn off or just whatever?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ex wf had this. I bought a vibrating 1. Probably the best bj's of my life. She eventually took it out after a job promotion. Dammmit that's how she got promoted.I used to date a $tripper with a pierced tongue. I loved it. Added a 2nd dimension to kissing.
I have found in my experience that women who have these piercings tend to be promiscuous or verg needy of attention. Sure, if you're just looking to get laid and get out--no problem. But most of these women aren't healthy for the long run, in my opinion.Is it a turn on or turn off or just whatever?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.