"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you think of going to the mall for a first date?

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mackdaddy27

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Please Discuss advantages/disadvantages..:

For me, its a plus has a food court to sit down and eat. Plus there are tons of stores so you can , theres something to discuss e.g. discussing clothes...
I can also think that there are alot of other store people there, there are people to get social proof from. Theres also a barnes & noble

Any disadvantages?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mackdaddy27 said:
Please Discuss advantages/disadvantages..:

For me, its a plus has a food court to sit down and eat. Plus there are tons of stores so you can , theres something to discuss e.g. discussing clothes...
I can also think that there are alot of other store people there, there are people to get social proof from. Theres also a barnes & noble

Any disadvantages?
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No public displays of affection???
 
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Mavrick

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Personally, I like to keep it small and short on the first date. There is nothing I have to prove to her except that I like her. That's it. It will keep her wondering about me if I take it slow.

It's best to take it slow and easy. Don't force anything, but let it all happen naturally. I know that she will like me only because she has decided to, and if she doesn't like me, I move on to the next woman. There is nothing to prove because I'm already happy, and I know who I am regardless of whether she does or not.

Just my 2 cents!! Take it how you want.
 
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mackdaddy27 said:
Please Discuss advantages/disadvantages..:

For me, its a plus has a food court to sit down and eat. Plus there are tons of stores so you can , theres something to discuss e.g. discussing clothes...
I can also think that there are alot of other store people there, there are people to get social proof from. Theres also a barnes & noble

Any disadvantages?
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I'm confused, are you saying you know alot of people who work there? If not I don't see how that gets you social proof.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I think a mall is a great idea. All the different things you can look at and talk about. Then you can go and get something to eat while your there.
 
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