"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you think of going to the mall for a first date?

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mackdaddy27

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Please Discuss advantages/disadvantages..:

For me, its a plus has a food court to sit down and eat. Plus there are tons of stores so you can , theres something to discuss e.g. discussing clothes...
I can also think that there are alot of other store people there, there are people to get social proof from. Theres also a barnes & noble

Any disadvantages?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mackdaddy27 said:
Please Discuss advantages/disadvantages..:

For me, its a plus has a food court to sit down and eat. Plus there are tons of stores so you can , theres something to discuss e.g. discussing clothes...
I can also think that there are alot of other store people there, there are people to get social proof from. Theres also a barnes & noble

Any disadvantages?
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No public displays of affection???
 
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Personally, I like to keep it small and short on the first date. There is nothing I have to prove to her except that I like her. That's it. It will keep her wondering about me if I take it slow.

It's best to take it slow and easy. Don't force anything, but let it all happen naturally. I know that she will like me only because she has decided to, and if she doesn't like me, I move on to the next woman. There is nothing to prove because I'm already happy, and I know who I am regardless of whether she does or not.

Just my 2 cents!! Take it how you want.
 
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mackdaddy27 said:
Please Discuss advantages/disadvantages..:

For me, its a plus has a food court to sit down and eat. Plus there are tons of stores so you can , theres something to discuss e.g. discussing clothes...
I can also think that there are alot of other store people there, there are people to get social proof from. Theres also a barnes & noble

Any disadvantages?
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I'm confused, are you saying you know alot of people who work there? If not I don't see how that gets you social proof.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think a mall is a great idea. All the different things you can look at and talk about. Then you can go and get something to eat while your there.
 
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