"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you think of "Financially Challenged" women.

amaterasu

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No disrespect for women (trying to make the right term), but I have already encountered atleast 3 women who we call "poor in money" (just to make it clear what i'm trying to say) or belonged to the lower class people.

Would you still persue? go? assuming she has the qualities that you are seeking in a woman?

Go for a long term relationship?

Would love to hear your thoughts :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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are these women students? starving artists? born into a low income family? or do they just spend everything they earn? need more context.
 

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are these women students? starving artists? born into a low income family? or do they just spend everything they earn? need more context.
I'm asking if you found the woman that you want and fits your standard but yeah belongs to the "low income family". (Let's just say you like her that much).

Or just use the way you understand people who were born poor.
 

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If shes legetimately from a poor family but meets all other requirements in her person i dont have a problem sharing assests in the right conditions.
Great! That is all I need to know :)

Are you willing to go through the hard way to build a family with her someday? Assuming you're going to work harder to keep your finances keep intact to sustain your lives?
 

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Its all up to you. What value is she. There are some cute woman out there from poor backrounds that are pretty amazing. Maybe not in the US as much but they exist.
Probably more grateful as well.

Look her in the eyes. You will know by how she looks at you wether or not shes of THAT kind of value. Good luck
Alright I understand you :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The type of woman you are referring to is called a "sugar baby".

Yes, these women can have value if they are under 25 and their minds are still easy to warp.
 

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The type of woman you are referring to is called a "sugar baby".

Yes, these women can have value if they are under 25 and their minds are still easy to warp.
Just being honest here, but are you willing to go through the financial problems that you will soon face with this women?

or Are you going to be practical and find another woman that levels your financial status or could be closer than yours?
 

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Just being honest here, but are you willing to go through the financial problems that you will soon face with this women?

or Are you going to be practical and find another woman that levels your financial status or could be closer than yours?
Its not possible to have financial problems because of someone else's finances unless I'm stupid.

Her financial problems are her financial problems. What I choose to help her with is up to me.
 

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I really wouldn't care if she works at Dunkin Donuts or Morgan Stanley. Long is she's not a gold digger and manages her money.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If shes legetimately from a poor family but meets all other requirements in her person i dont have a problem sharing assests in the right conditions.
As long as she adds to you sufficiently it's okay. They don't always add money. Sometimes the chemistry makes you better or she saves you time.
 

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Most men do not look at the financial value of a woman. A woman is judged primarily by her looks. If a man meets a very hot woman, 9 times out of 10, he won't really care if she is poor.
 

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If she’s poor because she’s in the process of messing up her life due to her own bad life choices, then stay away. Women like that are usually rolling disasters with constant financial emergencies popping up…
Other than that, low income or poor is ok if she meets your other requirements.
 
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If she’s poor because she’s in the process of messing up her life due to her own bad life choices, then stay away. Women like that are usually rolling disasters with constant financial emergencies…
Other than that, low income or poor is ok if she meets your other requirements.
Heck yea. I dated this girl who use to be out constantly at bars, clubs and taking off on vacation.. But couldn't even pay her bills or put food in the fridge. Then she started wanting help with bills n chit o_O:rolleyes: She kept on pressuring me to move in too.. All I can say is.. Thank god I dodged a major bullet :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I wouldn't mind helping.. But...

A. I wasn't sharing a place with her
B. She was totally irresponsible

She lived like a Sat night playa lol
 

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Most men do not look at the financial value of a woman. A woman is judged primarily by her looks. If a man meets a very hot woman, 9 times out of 10, he won't really care if she is poor.
That's a stupid way to evaluate her because she could be another groups "h0e" and is there just to take from you. She needs real value.
 

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Most men do not look at the financial value of a woman. A woman is judged primarily by her looks. If a man meets a very hot woman, 9 times out of 10, he won't really care if she is poor.
It's all about the girl for some. For me personally.. If I ain't into her.. Doesn't matter if she was rich. I still wouldn't fuk with her period
 

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That's a stupid way to evaluate her because she could be another groups "h0e" and is there just to take from you. She needs real value.
I never said it was a smart way to evaluate a woman. I'm just saying most men think with their little heads not the big one.

It's sort of an evolutionary thing. Way back, women got with men based on his ability to provide and protect. Men got with women based simply on her youth and ability to procreate.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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