"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you think of as successful?

BustedKnucks

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Over the summer I developed a plan along with my buddy to determine whether or not we were successful with women. We decided that hooking up with 1 out of every 3 girls you got a number from was a decent rate, likening it to the very good batting average of .333 in baseball.

It's been about 5 months since I held that standard to myself and I am closer to .750, so either my initial idea of success with women was a huge underestimation or I've been getting really lucky.

What do you guys think is a good ratio?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Depends on what "hooking up" means. :rolleyes:
 

lookyoung

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What do u mean by hooking up? Did u go all the way with them or go on a date with them.
 
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Once you get their number then they are interested - 2 out of 3 is good - 3 out of 4 is better!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lookyoung

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I think the numbers are pretty solid. Where are u hooking up with these girls.? I notice that when I go clubbing out of 7 numbers I might go all the way with one. So I guess my average would be a 143. Which isn't good but isn't terrible either for going all the way. :rockon:
 

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typical said:
Nah unless you've bonked her then thats still a missed chance, till then your unsuccessful.

I agree with that. Or at least get a bj or a knobjob.... I guess that would count also. If that counts my average will be slightly higher.
 
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