My GF has said that she is not happy anymore and has decided that she does not want to continue in the relationship because it will get worse. She said some specific events about her being neglected by me and some other BS thing is I can’t even remember now. I think it may be because I started a new job, also she displayed so many red flags so I withdrew from making an effort on her, I also started a new job so obviously I’m at work during day.
She has now gone abroad for two weeks it was planned months ago for a ceremony (I could not attend because of my new job,) deep down I know she wanted me to go with her because she kept on saying this event is important to my family etc. She told me this unhappy sh*t 2 days before she was due to travel.
We chatted and I told her I will be gone when she gets back, I just started a professional job and it is so intense to plan stuff. She seems sure but a little uncertain like she wants some type of guarantee or time or something like that.
How should I move on without affecting myself emotionally and keep my pride?
She calls me from abroad should I flake on her or what? I think she wants to keep tabs on me?
She took me to see her family on months ago and they loved me to bit and don’t understand why she is unhappy as I also feel like sh*t because she kinda dumped me ect
She has now gone abroad for two weeks it was planned months ago for a ceremony (I could not attend because of my new job,) deep down I know she wanted me to go with her because she kept on saying this event is important to my family etc. She told me this unhappy sh*t 2 days before she was due to travel.
We chatted and I told her I will be gone when she gets back, I just started a professional job and it is so intense to plan stuff. She seems sure but a little uncertain like she wants some type of guarantee or time or something like that.
How should I move on without affecting myself emotionally and keep my pride?
She calls me from abroad should I flake on her or what? I think she wants to keep tabs on me?
She took me to see her family on months ago and they loved me to bit and don’t understand why she is unhappy as I also feel like sh*t because she kinda dumped me ect