"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you think is the real reason why a 28 y.o man would be w/ a 48. y.o harridan?

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http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/dating-man-20-years-younger-taught-love-145300777.html

Mike* burst out laughing. The waiter hovering nearby followed suit. Meanwhile, I wanted to slide under the table and disappear. But not before I checked his ID. He was born in 1986; I was born in 1966. I'm about to turn 48; he's about to turn 28. And yet we're in love.
My take: Mike has failed for quite some time with slender women of his own age, and began to realize that he was more successful with older women. Figuring his bast chance was to shoot for as old a woman, who was not fat, as he could stomach, he went for this harridan. And since she gives him sex without the BS, he's currently "happy". Also, he may not be as in love a few years hence, once he comes to realize that yes he would rather bang women just over half his age. :woo:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MDJ: I agree with your take. I just don't think he had to go to FOURTY-EIGHT to acheive his goal. He could have gotten a 34/35 yo female who would look better than the 48 chick and still treat him better than a 26 yo AW.
 

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Dear MDJ,
We only just finished a thread on the charms of Older Women...this is a continuation....Taiyuu drew our attention to Ben Franklins letter,extolling the virtues of older Women to a restless Young Friend....It's a question of market value again,a trim attractive and experienced older Woman is to be preferred over many of the entitled young things!....
looking at the photos they look the same age,biologically they probably are...I find her an extremely attractive Woman,from the way she writes I think I would get on really well with her...She probably works out,eats healthily and would be a good influence on him!
 

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she's not bad looking, He isn't EXACTLY Brad Pitt.... SO, I guess it's ok looks wise. She may be easier to deal with than the 23 year olds out in the world who all think they are HOT... even when 40 lbs over their fighting weight
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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He is an AFC. I mean look at how he acted on the dates, it makes me want to laugh.
 

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Dear MDJ,
Couple of things...This Guy Runs Marathons,she says the svex is amazing and it probably is,his endurance levels would leave most of us for Dead.....
Many Men on this site are fond of young Women,women in some cases half their age....Good for them,more strength to their whatever!...On dates they would act in similar immature ways to this Guy...but fair is fair,if a Woman tries the same stunt,without any further evidence,we are asked to consider her a "Harriden"....Let's be fair,What's sauce for goose is sauce for gander"!
 

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That's a damn good looking 48 yr old that most of SoSuave would pile drive into pieces. That bald motherfücker over there looks about 45, so it's a fantastical yin and yang match.
 

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Maybe he likes her. When I was 26, I was crazy about this 36 year old, I thought she was the sexiest thing I had ever seen, and cute as a button. I've never been too hung up about age.
 

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that's the chick from house of cards. i would absolutely destroy that lol. would date her no questions asked if i were single. i like classy women like that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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glass half full

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young chicks are still playing their games. Older ones know what they want, and more willing. Just my opinion.
 
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