"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you think is the real reason why a 28 y.o man would be w/ a 48. y.o harridan?

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http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/dating-man-20-years-younger-taught-love-145300777.html

Mike* burst out laughing. The waiter hovering nearby followed suit. Meanwhile, I wanted to slide under the table and disappear. But not before I checked his ID. He was born in 1986; I was born in 1966. I'm about to turn 48; he's about to turn 28. And yet we're in love.
My take: Mike has failed for quite some time with slender women of his own age, and began to realize that he was more successful with older women. Figuring his bast chance was to shoot for as old a woman, who was not fat, as he could stomach, he went for this harridan. And since she gives him sex without the BS, he's currently "happy". Also, he may not be as in love a few years hence, once he comes to realize that yes he would rather bang women just over half his age. :woo:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MDJ: I agree with your take. I just don't think he had to go to FOURTY-EIGHT to acheive his goal. He could have gotten a 34/35 yo female who would look better than the 48 chick and still treat him better than a 26 yo AW.
 

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Dear MDJ,
We only just finished a thread on the charms of Older Women...this is a continuation....Taiyuu drew our attention to Ben Franklins letter,extolling the virtues of older Women to a restless Young Friend....It's a question of market value again,a trim attractive and experienced older Woman is to be preferred over many of the entitled young things!....
looking at the photos they look the same age,biologically they probably are...I find her an extremely attractive Woman,from the way she writes I think I would get on really well with her...She probably works out,eats healthily and would be a good influence on him!
 

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she's not bad looking, He isn't EXACTLY Brad Pitt.... SO, I guess it's ok looks wise. She may be easier to deal with than the 23 year olds out in the world who all think they are HOT... even when 40 lbs over their fighting weight
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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He is an AFC. I mean look at how he acted on the dates, it makes me want to laugh.
 

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Dear MDJ,
Couple of things...This Guy Runs Marathons,she says the svex is amazing and it probably is,his endurance levels would leave most of us for Dead.....
Many Men on this site are fond of young Women,women in some cases half their age....Good for them,more strength to their whatever!...On dates they would act in similar immature ways to this Guy...but fair is fair,if a Woman tries the same stunt,without any further evidence,we are asked to consider her a "Harriden"....Let's be fair,What's sauce for goose is sauce for gander"!
 

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That's a damn good looking 48 yr old that most of SoSuave would pile drive into pieces. That bald motherfücker over there looks about 45, so it's a fantastical yin and yang match.
 

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Maybe he likes her. When I was 26, I was crazy about this 36 year old, I thought she was the sexiest thing I had ever seen, and cute as a button. I've never been too hung up about age.
 

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that's the chick from house of cards. i would absolutely destroy that lol. would date her no questions asked if i were single. i like classy women like that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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young chicks are still playing their games. Older ones know what they want, and more willing. Just my opinion.
 
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