"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you think is more alpha: martial arts fighter or sportsman

John_Smith

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Hi,

I am going to college soon and I was wondering which of these activities i should focus more time on (since time is so darn scarce). I was thinking of either getting into muay thai competition(don't worry i've done martial arts for many years) or college basketball or something. Which of these activities do you think is more alpha. This isnt really just for getting girls (although duh it would be nice), but simple just to not feel like a beta male.

Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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undesputable

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Originally posted by John_Smith
Hi,

I am going to college soon and I was wondering which of these activities i should focus more time on (since time is so darn scarce). I was thinking of either getting into muay thai competition(don't worry i've done martial arts for many years) or college basketball or something. Which of these activities do you think is more alpha. This isnt really just for getting girls (although duh it would be nice), but simple just to not feel like a beta male.

Thanks
just bc you might do muay thai wont make you more alpha then the basketball player. Remeber being an alpha male is a mind set, you can even play no sports but still be the most alpha male in the whole universe. Just get into something that you know you will be a winner in, is not really the sport that changes your attitude or mind is really the act of winning and being good at something that gives you that confidence and alpha aura that you want.
 

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I compete Muay Thai and i do gym work.

Sports isnt about making you alpha thats just a side effect.

If you wanna be alpha do cold approaching and work on your inner game.

However, Muay Thai will make you more alpha than most sports, simply because your learning how to beat people up.
 

ShizamDaMan

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I think in all honesty Muay Thai is a much better life skill than being able to put a basketball in a hoop.

But yeah, you decide how alpha what you do makes you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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