"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you think causes buyers remorse

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mackdaddy27

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In other words,

what do you think is responsible for when a girls givings you her number ( usually willingly and even texts you back the same night etc)

However, when you try to call her a few days later, she doesn't return your call or response.

WHat do you think is the scientific explanation
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ummm lots of things...........time that has passed, nature or circumstances in which you extracted her digits in the first place, she may be over her minutes, not attached to her phone,

-other offers
-has a life outside of you
-cant find her phone
-phone turned off
-had a better offer
-wanted some validation from a guy
-doesnt answer unknown callers
-your text or voicemail u left was lame
-not happy with her choice at that specific time

Buyers remorse is the biggest idiocrisy on the planet............IF YOUR NOT COMPLETLY SATISFIED RETURN TO SENDER FOR COMPLETE REFUND.

Unless what you offer is totally 100% cool and economically valued, a great majority will excercise that policy. It's a viable option because competition is stiff.

When U speed seduce someone, you often skip crucial steps in building a connection, which often leads to chics flaking (non response). A counter tactic is to ensure their needs are met PRIOR to you walking away and or a great follow up banter to further establish a deeper connection.

Chics flake for all sorts of whack reasons that no man will ever truly comprehend........thats what being a girl is all about. They been this way since the adam and eve days. Some guy labled it "FICKLED" back when your grandfather was courting dames..........fast forward to 2009 and not much has changed.

U can view it as a Numbers game 2/3 women will flake and move on or CSI specifics of your extraction/seduction (tons of variables to consider) to reduce the "buyers remorse" option. I say get rid of that buyers thingy all together.
 
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One explanation which is offered by Mystery and others is that you didn't build enough comfort. The feelings she felt at the moment she met you have faded and she now feels awkward. That's especially so for guys who make out with a girl they recently met. Everything will seem to be going fine but then when they call her a few days later she refuses to answer. She's probably feeling guilty for being "slutty."
 
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Buyer's remorse is caused by not actually wanting the product. You go to the store, the clerk sells it to you, you feel awesome. It's the solution to your problems, well most of them. The clerk is really working hard to make sure you don't look at the negatives. You're ecstatic and you buy the thing on the spot!

You come home, and can't find a damn use for it or its not as great as you thought. You feel like you got screwed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lexington said:
One explanation which is offered by Mystery and others is that you didn't build enough comfort. The feelings she felt at the moment she met you have faded and she now feels awkward. That's especially so for guys who make out with a girl they recently met. Everything will seem to be going fine but then when they call her a few days later she refuses to answer. She's probably feeling guilty for being "slutty."
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True. That would have been my answer as well. To the original poster: read the Mystery Method book or go to one of the workshops to learn about this and many other concepts.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
Buyer's remorse is caused by not actually wanting the product.
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More accurately, not wanting it badly enough to ignore the negatives.

The negatives usually are: social conditioning (feeling like a slvt), peer pressure (her friends may not approve), family pressure (family may not approve), another guy she likes a little more, current plan/phase of her life not fitting yours, etc.

That's why there's old school wisdom: "always leave her wanting more".
 
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