"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What do You think about this?!?

loco2chon

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:-l Okay I was talking with this girl that had just gotten out of something big. a two year relationship to be more exact. I guess most people call this 'rebound' but anyways I've liked the girl for five long years and now that I finally got a chance to talk to her I took it. we talked for a couple of months and everything was going great. we were great friends we had this 'beautiful understanding' with each other. she would flirt and I fell for it. a couple of months later she tells me 'we shouldn't talk anymore' at first I was like ' I don't see anything wrong with it' so we kept on talking for a while and then again she brought that same subject up. I got tired of her alwyas bringin it up so a couple of days ago I just gave up hope on her and told her fine. "I won't be there for you anymore". I really miss her but I know that time will make me adapt and change and make me stronger
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whatever your questions is here... the answer is going to be read the DJ bible.

I'm not trying to be cruel here but you had absolutely zero chance with this woman. You were her emotional tampon (which essentially makes her think of you as a friend and not romantic potential).

If you want to date woman like this then read the bible and started changed how you act around woman.
 

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okay

Listen though... I've been practicing my skill with her and other girls and I think its working. I'm acting like a total different person, I think that's really messing her up. No, I know its really messing her up.
Oh! and the reason she told me that we shouldn't talk anymore its because she's very religious. She has to do things right. Me and her talking was definately not the right thing to do. I know she still wanted to keep talking to me because she told me so. I know I KILLED almost ALL the chances I have with her, but you never know. It might work out, not that I care anymore.
 
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