Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What do you think about this workout?

Pozitron

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Warm-up.
Regular push-ups till failure ( increasing the number from 1 day to another)
Sit-ups
Squats
Wide grip push-ups till failure.
Bicycle
Back exercises( Y/T/W raise % "swimming")
Squats -variation (toes out & wide stance)
Triangle push-ups till failure.
Leg raise variation for abs.
1-leg bridge
Stretching

I'm too busy and probably will not go to the gym. That's that. Now, about what I can do at home this is what I've came up to. What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jack Wealthy

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It's not particularly good because it is repetive. Basically you are working the same muscles with the same movement pattern repeatedly. If you want well balanced muscles and a well balanced body, you have to work different movement patterns and different muscles. You have three pushuip variations, so your pushup muscles will develop (chest, triceps and shoulder) but no comparable back excersise- i.e. pullup, row... A Y-T-W raise is not comparable to a pushup in strenght building potential so you might develop a musclular imbalance doing this. Componding that there is only two back excersises to three chest.

However, your problem is common. I also work out at home in about 30 minutes + stretching. The real 'secret' is progressive overload. That means different things for different goals so post yours up.

Also, buy a doorframe chinup bar. They're ~$20 and will accelerate your gains exponentially.

Goodluck :)
 

Julius_Seizeher

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I would go to one (standard) style of pushup, and add 3 types of pullups:

1. Shoulder-width reverse grip (for biceps)

2. Wide Forward grip (triceps and back)

3. Narrow Forward grip (absolutely kills the forearms)

I think pullups are the single most underestimated, underemployed, simple and yet brutally effective arm and back training. No matter what you can do in the gym with weights and a rack, simple pullups can be seriously humbling and make you want to puke. In a good way.

I am currently kind-of taking a break from the gym. I just got burnt out on going there. But you'd be surprised at the results you can get just with pushups, pullups, and cardio. I use a crossmember on a grain auger for pullups.
 

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I used to do a lot of push ups as well and when they became easy I added a backpack with various amounts of textbooks and elevated my feet on a chair.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dutchmaster

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What are your goals? And that is a lot for a single work out depending on your sets. Maybe you want it to cut down a few doing certain ones one day and others another. Pretty good for home exercises though
 

JonJaper

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Depends on your goals.

If you want to build maximum muscle and strength, this sucks (mainly due to lack of weights, lack of categorising exercises into muscle groups, etc)

If you want more stamina and cardiovascular endurance, then this workout might be ok.

Being too busy for the gym is not an excuse. I'm sure with better time management you could infact go to the gym....but for the sake of argument, let's say you REALLY can't (let's imagine your work hours are bad and the closest gym is an 8 hour drive away LOL). In that case, buy a set of free weights at home. Nothing stopping you from that, some are fairly inexpensive.
 
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