"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you think about this woman?

MatureDJ

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http://yourerrantwife.blogspot.com/2009/04/return-of-slut.html

It is not so much that I cheat that is their problem, but that I do not obey the man that owns me - and don't mistake it, this is about ownership. He pays the bills, it is his house - I deny him sex and I **** other men. But, he should be entitled to sex, after all he pays for it with the wedding ring - I am, to be clear, his object. As a result of my errant activities he should disfigure me or kill me and get off for it or he should be able to take the kids and throw me out in the street. That's what men do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think she's the typical modern day western woman.

She's the exact reason getting into a relationship or getting married in todays world is an extremely bad idea for a man.

Also notice how she makes her subconscious clear in the blog?

She brings up the thought that she should be killed or disfigured for engaging in this behavior in a marriage but she does it anyway.

Its like we of the reality minded crew here always say: "Biology trumps arbitrary morality codes".

She finds the act of cheating on her husband so deliciously irresistable especially so in this pro feminist entitlement culture she does it even knowing he might one day have enough of her bullsh!t and put her in the morgue or the hospital if he can't control himself enough to just divorce her instead.
 

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You left out the best part. Do you think she reads these boards?

Men I like. That kinda whiny, entitled, bull**** you got going on - that is not so much about being a man as it is about being angry. That's not the same thing.

So, feel free to try to categorize me and judge me according to your tired stereotypes and out-dated views. I think the reason you are so angry is that you feel your cultural power - the kind that has privileged you for so long - being slowly eroded. That is made more obvious by the references so many of you have made to Muslims and Sharia law and not being sure if I am really a woman or if I am a gay man. The world is changing, has changed, and it is not the world you want. You are the type that requires unquestioned power based on your genitals and the colour of your skin because you don't have what it takes to make it, to be men, in a world where merit matters.
 

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I think that for all we know she may not even be married or have children. Her blog could just be an elaborate fantasy life she has made up because she knew it would get her a lot of attention on the interwebs.

Cooking up a fake life for attention wh0ring seems perfectly reasonable to me.

Or maybe she is the modern woman she portrays herself as.
 

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She doesnt 'like' men, she likes power over men, through sex.
Blech....
I think that she's an example of the rubber band snapping the other way.
Her feeling repressed or whatever, because maybe at one time she was placed on a pedestal and thought that she could do no wrong.
But that was denying who she really IS.
So now, she's pushing back, trying to be the low class female she always was and is.
And proud of it and enjoying all the attention.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Luthor Rex said:
I think that for all we know she may not even be married or have children. Her blog could just be an elaborate fantasy life she has made up because she knew it would get her a lot of attention on the interwebs.

Cooking up a fake life for attention wh0ring seems perfectly reasonable to me.

Or maybe she is the modern woman she portrays herself as.
Perhaps.

The comments of support that follow though are just as ridiculous though. I was reading through that thinking WTF? to myself. This topped it though

Wow, good for you, we (men) no scratch that I will just speak for me. I (a man) am not at all like the pathetic creatures leaving those messages on your blog.

You as you well know are entitled to any life you can make for yourself and your relationship with your husband is between you and him.

If I can help support you in any way please let me know.

J.
Here is a man looking for validation from a *****.
 

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lets be optimistic, harry... maybe it was a gay man.

:(
 

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piranha, if I have learned one thing in life its that men have the tendency to be more concerned about feminism then even women are. Why?

1 - Its in our nature to be protective. The morons feel they are protecting women by protecting "their rights" even though the concept of feminism is not practical. Feminism exploits mans innate sense to provide and protect.
2 - Men have been indoctrinated into these belief systems. Raised by single mothers, overwhelmed in universities, instructed by the media. He thinks he is normal. This kind of belief and behaviour is expected of him and men who act contrary to this belief are part of the problem. He probably thinks men are the sole reason why most relationships fail.
3 - The weakling thinks its going to get him laid. He is hoping that by being all that society has instructed him to be and in reciting parrot fashion the viewpoint that he feels earns him the approval of women, they will suck his **** and tounge his ass, after he cooked them dinner and washed the dishes of course.

I cant be optimistic. I see his type daily.
 

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Every nutcase, loonie, histrionic attention h0 gets their 15 minutes of fame these days via a self authored blog. Youtube is another forum which attracts the deranged ..

Shheesh, is that rant of her's worth a thread here ? Nah.
 

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You are the type that requires unquestioned power based on your genitals and the colour of your skin because you don't have what it takes to make it, to be men, in a world where merit matters.
Strength in men is artificially controlled. Being stronger than another is a merit. We are not being allowed to use this strength by the choosing of other men.

Women really have no say in the matter other than convincing men of their views.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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