“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What do you think about this obnoxious photo for a single mommy?

Nutz

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She seems slender so she gets points there. Also, she's from Eastern Europe so there's more points. That said, she's at best a 5-6 IMO and you can get far better from that region and without the baggage of a single mother.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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These days I hardly have enough time to go see my own blood relatives ain't no way in hell that I'm gonna waste my time with single mums when there are so many lovely young sane single woman out there willing to drop their knickers for me.

Having said that if I was to game a girl who was hot and it turned out she had a kid I wouldn't mind adding her in as another plate to spin but nothing more.

Guess it depends on the situation ... too much hate on the forums these days.
 

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So much venom against single moms. Half of all marriages end in divorce and most of those have child(ren). Unless she's an uneducated loser chick, the child will usually have a father, she'll have a job (and child support), you'll just get the good side.
At my age, I'm finding the very small percentage of women out there who have no children and are available to me are usually nut cases.
Moreover, as I'm a single, primary father, the moms (always educated and successful) understand my burdens and are by far the best choices for me.

That said, when I was under 30, I would never bother with a mom ... because I didn't have to.

When I see those pictures, I would jump her, but not show her to my friends and family. Minus points for being plain, tired and having bad hair. Minus many points for being Eastern European. Plus points for her youth and physique.

She could put a more tasteful picture out there for the third. That last picture screams fat brat! Nope!!!

SH
 

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I've dated plenty with and without kids. One thing I like about the single moms is when they need to go spend time with their kid, it frees me up to go do my own thing. Gives me my space.

I wonder how many of you single mom haters are single dads? Afterall close to 60pct of the population has children.

I suspect a lot of the hate for single moms come from guys not getting the needs met entirely on their terms. Things have to be schedule around kids to some extent.

A lot of you younger guys will have a little different opinion once you get into your 30's and see the number of single women without kids decreases.
 

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Howiestern said:
I wonder how many of you single mom haters are single dads? Afterall close to 60pct of the population has children.
I've always taken the attitude that if I were ever to become a single dad, that I would consider a single mom - as there would be balance to the relationship. I still would not consider a mom with a young child, but after the kid hits 9 or so, it would not be a problem.

Howiestern said:
I suspect a lot of the hate for single moms come from guys not getting the needs met entirely on their terms. Things have to be schedule around kids to some extent.
No, the hate is mainly due to the preemptive cuckoldery that is inherent to the situation. That is why if I had my own child, it wouldn't be an issue.
 

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give her some credit for putting the kid out there

its a package deal with her
 
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