MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What do you think about this dating agency?
- Thread starter MatureDJ
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
What do I think ? I think that you should get out more, get some action by applying the the skills that you have acquired from this site, and quit reading BS internet sites who will remove $K's from your wallet if you are stupid enough to sign up.
Tictac
Banned
A man who would take another man's wife is not a man at all, he's a boy at best.
A man who would use an internet site to do that is pathetic.
Tictac
A man who would use an internet site to do that is pathetic.
Tictac
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
old married dude
Senior Don Juan
No thanks! 
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I still know a lot of the people I went to high school with; most of us still live in the same small town. Now we are pudgy balding 30-somethings with kids. The one thing that has never changed since high school is the cheating. I know more cheating spouses than faithful ones.