alphaace
Don Juan
Do you think she deserved the punch?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/12/10/jersey-shore-girl-punched_n_388203.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/12/10/jersey-shore-girl-punched_n_388203.html
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What do you think about the snookie incident
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
It's never made clear WHY he punched her. (To those of us who didn't see the whole show)
Just a woman leaning over and the guy going POW! I was wondering what happened in the moments leading up to the punch.
Just a woman leaning over and the guy going POW! I was wondering what happened in the moments leading up to the punch.
alphaace
Don Juan
WaterTiger said:It's never made clear WHY he punched her. (To those of us who didn't see the whole show)
Just a woman leaning over and the guy going POW! I was wondering what happened in the moments leading up to the punch.
Well I don't actually watch the show, I just heard about this so I looked it up. The video to the link shows that the chick is saying to the guy "Get your fu**ing ugly azz outta our faces" when he wasnt even looking, then he just pretty much turned to her and punched her.
Now I would never hit a girl, but I do think she got what was coming to her.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
If it happened more often, women would learn to control their mouths-like men do. When we mouth off, we know we can be punched out. There are no consequences for a woman running her mouth.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
CarlitosWay
Master Don Juan
Unless she outs to ****in' kill you and has a weapon in hand...I see no point in hittin' a women. If you actually lift and don't eat like a pigeon. Your size/strength is usually a huge advantage over most women. Most women have a hard time bench pressing a 45 lb bar. Snookie seems cool as hell and that p-o-s deserves to get his ass beat big time.
I saw the episode and I don't believe Lil Kim had it coming to her. Sure she mouthed off and that can be frustrating but I don't believe she should have gotten her lights punched out. SMH at MTV *****ing out and not showing it when the showed it in the previews. That's some WWE ****.
jdollarthegreat
Don Juan
Nah you can't hit a woman man, no way. If you a real man a woman's words shouldn't affect you to the point you have to hit her. That shows your a sensitive man and your no better than her. Getting cursed out and arguing are good opportunities to test out your game, I mean if your a guy that loves a challenge like me know wat im sayin
I don't watch the show, but I saw some preview clips and that chick is annoying as hell. Regardless of why he punched her, I laughed my a-- off.
She may not have deserved it, but I don't feel sorry for her either. I know when I should and shouldn't talk sh-t, apparently she learned this lesson the hard way.
Remember ladies, guys are human beings just like yourselves, don't expect all of us to turn the other cheek.
She may not have deserved it, but I don't feel sorry for her either. I know when I should and shouldn't talk sh-t, apparently she learned this lesson the hard way.
Remember ladies, guys are human beings just like yourselves, don't expect all of us to turn the other cheek.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
CTApprentice
Don Juan
The dude who punched Snookie stole some drinks from the rest of the cast and she called him out.
Sorry but that guy was in the wrong, she didn't deserve to get punched for that.
Sorry but that guy was in the wrong, she didn't deserve to get punched for that.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
I cant lie I lol'ed. She was mouthin off though, so I find it hard to feel sorry for people in general when they start and talk ****.Not sayin he should have done it....but I understand.
They are clearly both douche bags..but hes retarded for punching her. Regardless of what she was saying to him. The only way I would ever hit a woman was if she started hitting me first. Even then I would probably just grab her and hold her hands back.
Phenomenal One
Don Juan
One of the greatest thing i've ever seen.
The guy who (along with their crew) jumps random people just for fun.
The guy who'd lay you out just for givin em a dirty look.
The guy who'd drop you in a second if you dare step on his kicks.
The guy who thought you said something disrespectful to his girl.
The guy who does'nt care if you're young/old, short/tall, male/female etc...
because he's still gonna kick you're a**.
Woman are not f*ckin special..they can get "nap time" just like any man,
and just like so many other dumb chicks that girl found out the hard way.
I've seen that with more woman than men.
since there's always someone to tell the man to ignore em and don't fight back, woman don't get the "nap time" like they should.
No offense but the average man does'nt give two sh*t about you're nor anyone elses definition of what a "real man" is.Nah you can't hit a woman man, no way. If you a real man a woman's words shouldn't affect you to the point you have to hit her. That shows your a sensitive man and your no better than her. Getting cursed out and arguing are good opportunities to test out your game, I mean if your a guy that loves a challenge like me know wat im sayin
The guy who (along with their crew) jumps random people just for fun.
The guy who'd lay you out just for givin em a dirty look.
The guy who'd drop you in a second if you dare step on his kicks.
The guy who thought you said something disrespectful to his girl.
The guy who does'nt care if you're young/old, short/tall, male/female etc...
because he's still gonna kick you're a**.
Woman are not f*ckin special..they can get "nap time" just like any man,
and just like so many other dumb chicks that girl found out the hard way.
ExactlyI don't watch the show, but I saw some preview clips and that chick is annoying as hell. Regardless of why he punched her, I laughed my a-- off.She may not have deserved it, but I don't feel sorry for her either. I know when I should and shouldn't talk sh-t, apparently she learned this lesson the hard way.
I've seen that with more woman than men.
since there's always someone to tell the man to ignore em and don't fight back, woman don't get the "nap time" like they should.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
I know I dont...lol.No offense but the average man does'nt give two sh*t about you're nor anyone elses definition of what a "real man" is.
ExactlyWoman are not f*ckin special..they can get "nap time" just like any man,
and just like so many other dumb chicks that girl found out the hard way.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thedude4242
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she was a nobody ***** who never got any attention from no one. she wants attention so bad even if its negative. she just wants to fit in and will do anything to get her name spoken or be noticed. like them girls in high school who were anything.
CarlitosWay
Master Don Juan
Phenomenal One said:One of the greatest thing i've ever seen.
No offense but the average man does'nt give two sh*t about you're nor anyone elses definition of what a "real man" is.
The guy who (along with their crew) jumps random people just for fun.
The guy who'd lay you out just for givin em a dirty look.
The guy who'd drop you in a second if you dare step on his kicks.
The guy who thought you said something disrespectful to his girl.
The guy who does'nt care if you're young/old, short/tall, male/female etc...
because he's still gonna kick you're a**.
Woman are not f*ckin special..they can get "nap time" just like any man,
and just like so many other dumb chicks that girl found out the hard way.
Exactly
I've seen that with more woman than men.
since there's always someone to tell the man to ignore em and don't fight back, woman don't get the "nap time" like they should.
LOL seriously? Women and getting "nap time". Can't believe I'm reading this **** here.BlackJackal said:I know I dont...lol.
Exactly
LOL @ guys up in here trying to sound all macho, making rationalizations about this clear one sided situation. Guy took their drinks she calls him out cause no one else was really saying much sh*TT. He could have simply payed for the drinks, apologized and walked away. Except he was a **** and is now going to be paying out the a$$ (espec if she gets a real good lawyer) and will have his rep pretty much ruined "Weren't you that one guy who hit a woman on national television?"
I say BS, It's one thing to slap a woman or push her but actually hittin one with a closed fist/open palm is crossing a huge line. Then to try and substantiate hitting a woman in this secenario is down right pathetic to hear from any one just cause they exchanged some words back and forth. Keyboard warriors up in here...."nap time" LOL
The reality is that the dude is a dumb**** cause he's the one going to jail......Why would you ever hit anyone that wasnt a physical threat to you? She was just talking shiit ,he shoulda just laughed and kept enjoying the drinks he swooped
Drum&Bass
Master Don Juan
This is a very valid point !!!!!! Aside from the Snooki incident, if it were socially acceptable to hit women that provoked that type of response, I think there would be a lot more respect and integrity in social settings. Women who know weak AFC's will always believe stupid things like "you can't hit a girl, its just not right" will milk this flawed philosophy and disregard the feelings of other human beings.sodbuster said:If it happened more often, women would learn to control their mouths-like men do. When we mouth off, we know we can be punched out. There are no consequences for a woman running her mouth.
:kick:
Phenomenal One
Don Juan
Rep ruined? LOL, except for maybe a few people everyone else knows that they'd drop another person for the smallest thing so they'd understand.Except he was a **** and is now going to be paying out the a$$ (espec if she gets a real good lawyer) and will have his rep pretty much ruined "Weren't you that one guy who hit a woman on national television?"
I say BS, It's one thing to slap a woman or push her but actually hittin one with a closed fist/open palm is crossing a huge line. Then to try and substantiate hitting a woman in this secenario is down right pathetic to hear from any one just cause they exchanged some words back and forth. Keyboard warriors up in here...."nap time" LOL
I know a few guys who've stroke woman, after the initial shock of seeing it no one treated the guys any differently.
Most fights start with just words, hell some fight happen beacause someone looked at another person.
Keyboard warrior? another way fights start, some guy throws around insults to sound cool.
I think he's an idiot for striking SOMEONE, not because he struck a woman.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.